I am kinda new in school...it is my grad year...please read and help me folks...i would really appreciate it?

Question

i am a 16 years old guy. i came to this place 6 months back....so i was new in school. i am not one of those who opens up to people very fast. but i sure do like to party and socialise....but i havent been a single party in this new place yet. the reason for that could be that i havent had many friends. there was this one guy who convinced me that he would take me to a party. he said he would definitely call me that particular day. he did not call me and never called me after that. i dont have any close friend here with whom i could hang out regularly. yes, i am kind of a loner. the thought of that does'nt feel any good......

now i have my summer holidays going on. school starts in 10 days. it is going to be my grad year. and there is going to be an extremely huge party for grad students before school starts. i havent been to any other parties but i definetely want to go to this big grad party. but i have nobody to drive me. i dont drive myself. i also dont have anyone who could buy beer for me.....

what should i do???

I am trying very hard not to sound g*y

i dont really have anybody's phone number.....and even if i ask them such favours, they'd probably ignore me cuz i am not really that close to them and they have a friend circle of their own

I really really want to socialize....please help me

Answer 1

It won't kill you to ask for phone numbers.. there is really no harm in doing so. Just be friendly and out going, start making connections with poeple who do drive and people who can buy booze. Its all about networking, as bad as it sounds. But I do it every year and it always works for me.  ^_^

Answer 2

A good start to any socialising could be to ask a girl at school to go to a movie or for a coffee or cold drink - this could be the icebreaker that you need to start things moving for you and also give out the right vibes as to your sexual preferences too.

If you are only 16 why worry about the beer angle - many girls would rather go out with a guy anyway who doesn't have to get plastered to have a good time and can be a party guy without the alcohol crutch to support him.

What is wrong with asking a parent to drop you off to a party and either asking for someone in your family to collect you at a prearranged time or getting a taxi home when you are ready, and if you really must drink this is the sensible option anyway and saves someone as in your parent from sitting up half the night wondering when their little party animal is coming home?

Happy partying and how about showing your parent/s how responsibe you are becoming now that you are in your grad year  

Answer 3

in my opinion you dont need parties to help you not be a loner, you just need people who want to hang around with you because your you, but then again your in high school, of course you want to sociolize and have a bunch of friends and fun. you should go there by yourself take a taxi or something or have your sibling (if you have one) go with you. a party's a really social place so if you go you probably will find people to socialize with, just dont do something irrational like getting too drunk cause you might do something embarrasing that will ruin you, also its not healthy and you might get a concussion

hope i answered your question