I am lonley i dont have friends and i waste my time watching p**n videos. help me

Question

i want to start a life like others . how do i quit watching p**n . i'm addicted to it . i dont know what do to so i spend my time watching that. i dont study . i dont do anything productive. but thts boring i want to change tht life help me how can i overcome that?? any experience pls share

Answer 1

throw all the p**n out the window so a little 10 yr old wud find it on the sidewalk

after that always go outside

dont ever stay in the house for a long time cuz then ul do it more and more

so go outside make sum friends posibly girlfriends go wach sum movies, go to starbucks or sumthin like dat lol (girls like starbucks) and jus have a good time

try 2 flirt wit oder girls unless u ugly den dont try jus make friends

Answer 2

You could get a block for bad things on your computer and television so that could stop it and go talk to someone about this and get a job to help you gain money and find a goal that you want to achieve.

Answer 3

First of all I used to be addicted to p**n also lol. How old are you would also be nice to know. What i did was first if you are into sports,video games,  or anything else, start to befriend them... after you get a couple friends GET A JOB lawl. Or you can borrow money from your mom or dad and change you clothes. take a shower and then get a girl friend. STOP WATCHING AS MUCH p**n :P. I know it is hard but start chewing gum or something.

Hope this helps you just remember that if you hang out with friends that is less time you whack it :P

Answer 4

um. Slowly cut down on the amount of p**n you watch. Take up a hobbie, cook alot, get a pet, do SOMETHING. Don't let yourself get bored ever. Keep yourself too busy to watch p**n.

hope I helped and good luck.

Answer 5

go out someplace even the mall or something and surround yourself with people and definetely try to meet some girls. if you have a girlfriend you won't need p**n.

you're only addicted casue you're telling yourself you are and you're letting it be your escape as well as your social life. get out of the chair and go out. it won't just fall into your lap you have to put yourself out there.  

Answer 6

You may need to seek out professional help--a therapist or psychologist. p**n addiction has been compared to being worst than a drug addiction.

Answer 7

okay serousily you cant qiut wow okay listen do something watch vidoes on your computer not p**n okay go outside make some friends hang out with them okay im sorry but i v=cant really help you with your question

Answer 8

The love of Jesus Christ can get you through it all you got to do is go to a Christian Church, Get Baptized, and start living with God and it also helps to read the Bible it has a lot of inspirational words and scriptures in there he will help you but he can't do anything unless you ask.

If you need help just ask!!!

Good Luck and God Bless!!!

Answer 9

You're just in a rut.

It might be because you don't feel like you have a direction in your life right now, and no goals to work towards.  Maybe try making a list of some goals you'd like to accomplish, some short term and some longer term, like ask yourself where you want to be in 2 years, or 5 years.  Once you have a longer term goal, you can start thinking of things you can start doing today that will help you work towards that goal.  

Personally, I would pick 1-2 realistic goals from that list and make a daily plan of things I could do that would put me on the path to obtaining my goals, and also I would turn off the computer and tv, and start exercising on a regular basis.  I think you'd be really surprised at what regular exercise will do for your concentration and focus, and your energy levels will be much higher.  Once you start moving, it's easier to keep moving.  It's the getting started and making it into a habit that is the hard part.  My advice is to not think about it, not wait to "feel motivated" to do something, but to just do something.  Even if you don't want to.

good luck!

Answer 10

Well p**n is alright.  I mean for guys maybe once a day, but I like bike riding.  

Running is really fun.  Although you don't get to talk to people right away, sometimes if you make a routine of walking, running biking or something then other people notice you.  They see you walking each day or something and they wave or smile.  I have a met a few people just by riding my bike around.  Going to the library sometimes can be fun.

YOu should start by working on yourself and then when you are comfortable, you can start meeting others.

Also clubbing is fun.  Bring like one other friend and go clubbing.  And dance.  Don't sit on the wall.

Answer 11

All though I havee never experienced this I do want to give advice. I currently have a family member serving 20 years in prison because of his addiction to internet pornography. I do not know how spiritual you are but what I can suggest is getting involved with a local church and joining a life group they offer. This will help you meet new people and you can get some prayer warriors out there to pray for you to overcome your addiction. Please get God in your life. He can help with anything as long as you let Him. All churches love visitors, and love helping one another. Most offer life groups like bowling leagues etc... just get involved. You need something to occupy yourself with. Open the phone book and look up a church! Please do not get yourself in trouble legally, because the feds are really looking for people to crack down on.

Answer 12

Try finding something to take up ur time like a hobby  or something you like besides p**n...Or try finding some professional help

Answer 13

Well if you really want to change your life then you have to put in some effort.  You could try joining a gym, not only will the exercise be good for you, it will make you feel better about yourself and give you motivation in other areas of your life as well as the possibility of meeting new people.  If the gym is not your thing how a team sport such as basketball.  

Give yourself a goal - tell yourself you will join a gym for 1 month and go regularly - life is too precious to waste.

Answer 14

You should see a psychologist cause this is interrupting your social, personal, love, etc...life.

According to the studies there are people who don't even get married just because they are addicted to p**n. (I hope you don't get to those extremes) Find help.

Answer 15

im a girl i dont watch p**n but i spend too much of my time watching other youtube videos and i dont really ever go out because my best and practically only friend lives far away and is currently on vacation.

all i can say is try to get a job because it will give you something to do and you will meet people and make money which will allow you to get out more and have something better to do then watch p**n

i know a lot of people will be like go get friends but its harder then that. sometimes you just cant find many people you get along well with, but beleive or not, there are people who you will get along with. you have to expand and create more places for you to meet people. try to find a decent girl in your town because she can help distract you from the p**n

i dont have a life either, but i did at one point and it was a lot of drama and planning and rushing and it was unpleasent and i got hurt a lot by others so i found that i wanted to seperate myself. just becareful who you choose to hang out with and make sure you can trust them because then you wont have to worry about losing friends and going back to being lifeless.

and get out of the house, even if you are alone at first. go for a walk and get some fresh air, just turn off the computer. go do something you enjoy other then p**n like go to a concert or go buy something or go out for some lunch. people will want to hang out with you more if you seem less boring

Answer 16

Everytime you watch it tell yourself that by doing that then you are getting no where in your life. I have the same problem. I'm watching it less and less. Get yourself involved and do things so that you aren't bored and have nothing to do. Go for a walk, ride a bike, watch tv, play games, whatever you need to do to get your mind off it.

Answer 17

stop watching p**n!!!!!!!!! thats the first thing you should do, and try meeting new people, try something new there's many things to do besides nothing.

Answer 18

Do you have a personal relationship with Jesus?

I'd say pray, talk to a pastor. Find a church gathering to go to. Or find some friends.

Good Luck, Keep me posted.

Answer 19

Well buddy, i would first start by looking for a girl that fits ur needs. by that u wouldn't need to fantasize about naked girls anymore. best of luck to you

Answer 20

If you Watch it on Teevee then throw the remote away...If you watch it on the computer ....then tell someone to take your computer.then learn how to play the guitar or something

Answer 21

Ever try speaking to a professional its normal for guys to be addicted to p**n. You should try going to someone to overcome your addiction. Its hard I'm sure once your use to doing it so much. Why not put on a good attitude like instead of watching the p**n think "well I like to be the one doing something like the people in the pornos." That should give u confidence to approach a girl maybe or even just talk to a few guys as friends. Hope this helped.  

Answer 22

Um.. i dont have the same problem. But as soon as u get into school...Make sure u start talking to somepeople. and start trying to hang out with friends.. Get a job.. and that will get ur mind off of um p**n  

Answer 23

Lol Bless nothing wrong with watch and learn DVDS.

Take up a Hobby, join an Internett dating site, go on dates, go to movies, go do some sort of sport, find what other things you may like to do.

So as soon as you get to the stage of turning the TV on or PC go do something else

If you do what you have always done you will get what you always got, dare to make the change...

Good Luck

Answer 24

I know this is going to sound lame ( but I am you last summer)

get up and go for a walk find something to do, anything. head for the mall, go see a movie. Anything just get up off your butt and do something. Once you start moving about and get your blood pumping again. You will find that life is a whole lot more fun.

Answer 25

Just hang out with your friends in the day and watch p**n at night. It can't be that hard to not watch p**n all the time, because you're on Yahoo! Answers now.

You say you don't have friends? Uh, how old are you, that helps too.

Answer 26

Start exciting your life with new opportunities and experiences!  Get a real hobby.  My friend was totally bored with her life so she got qualified as a diver and is going on trips with the dive class, like down to the Keys.  She's currently getting her pilot's license, taking lessons with some instructor in a little air plane.  She's 23 and finishing up college.  You can do those things.  Volunteer for red cross and travel the world.  Maybe Big Brothers, Big Sister's club.  Just start doing more interesting things.  Become a life guard, it's really really easy to get certified, I did it.  Good luck!

Answer 27

i know exactly how u feel. i had the same problem. i used to be the same way, everyday i would watch p**n. nonstop it would be in my mind, during school, work, every hour of every day. no matter how hard i tried it didn't work. sometime si defeated myselkf and didn't watch it for a week or so, than returned back. of all the experiences i had of trying to quit there was only one way to stop it. where ever you watch it, computer or tv, you have to stop going on it. stop going on the internet, or watching tv. if that is to hard, than try having someone go with you so you dont go on it. another way is to if perhaps u do turn it on, just leave. walk away while your not to lazy or excited to leave. the final way is to pray to god and ask for help. christian or not, god can and will help you. just say, God, you see my problem, help me over come it. and help God help you. stop going on tv or computer so often, go outside, or read a magazine, or listen to music instead. i did that and now i'm free....i live the best life i can. i;m one of the happiest people on earth rite now...

Answer 28

One way to quit a habit is to do it less. So watch less and then progress by not watching certain days. Eventually you will quit. To help you get out play sports. Hang with friends or meet new friends, go to the movies ect.  

Answer 29

Well the best way to stop is to get rid of the source, if its the computer, get away from it. Go outside, go for a walk, pre occupy your time with something else, that should take care of it, if you can stay away for 21 days most likely you will kick the addiction no problem. I still watch once in while though because a guy does have his needs, right?

Answer 30

Get rid of your computer... Have a family member keep the computer at their house. If you're really serious about changing, this is the best way to go.

Answer 31

write everything you like to do on a piece a paper (exclude p**n), than figure out what you like to do the most spend time planning that out and you should be good