I am loving getting pudgy; I am starting to think my friends only liked me cuz I was thin. Gaining=feel sexr?

Question

My IM is on and please read through my past questions.

I have always felt fuller sized women in the size 12 to 16 dress size are just so beautiful. Myself I have spent my life thin and never could gain weight.

The last 3 weeks I really commited myself to gain and succeeded in gaining 16 pounds so far.

But, everyone is acting like its so horrible etc. My god, how must the people who are pudgy feel about these remarks.

Why cant someone once in a while want to be pudgy. I mean isnt being thin almost neurotic. I never felt very s**y thin and am loving the things happening to my body these last weeks.

I feel so soft and s**y. I want to get to 165 or so. Maybe I wont be able to lose the weight ever. Maybe it will mess up my figure a little bit in terms of model looks, which I never really had.

Cant anyone out there understand someone like myself who has been thin all my life and loving fuller sized women, wanting to be pudgy.

Talk to me, my IM is on or post.

Answer 1

I feel you. I was really skinny when i was a p*****n and was actually picked on for it cuz in the african american community skinny is not that cute; so throughout jr high i gained a nice amount of weight and filled out everywhere. I loved it. My butt and thighs got bigger!! I love it. I'm not fat but i am a really good size of a 9. right now i am 5'5 and i weigh about 130. That's pretty normal but compared to where i used to be its a big difference.Do what you do.

Answer 2

It' s better to bulk up just incase the world faces food shortages. All the thin people will die off. We pudgier folk will live through it.

Answer 3

seems like ppl always want what they can't have or they are not.. i want to be thinner. u want to be heavier.. i want straight hair..not wavy.. i want to have money .. we all want .. we are all diffrent.. but i do know.. some ppl feel that fat is catchy.. when i lose weight guys like me more. when i gain no so much.. life is just unfair.. take what u can get.. change what u can.. but always be true to urself.. real friends like u for u not ur body or ur money

Answer 4

well im a size 12 and i want to be thin so bad. but do whatever u want. and find new friends. =] good luck

Answer 5

well most chubby ladies want to lose weight!!do what make u hapy people wil always have something to say live your life on what makes u happy.

Answer 6

I don't see anything wrong with it.  It's your body.  You can gain weight and still workout and eat healthy foods (just more of them) and be a healthy person.

But, if you're just eating garbage and sitting around then you have to expect people who care about you to be concerned.  They don't want you to ruin your health.  There are healthy ways to gain weight and I sincerely hope you're doing it the right way, just like I hope people trying to lose weight do it the right way.

Answer 7

Umm.. being thin in my opinion is better than being fat. But everyone needs their own "healthy" weight for example and person 6'1 should weigh at least 190 pounds. And a person 5'5 should weigh about 125 pounds ect. Find your healthy weight!

Answer 8

no i don't think there is a "healthy weight" like 5"5-125 that's insane people come in all shapes and sizes and no matter how much you weight as long as you are healthy and HAPPY than what the scale says doesn't matter

I was very thin and then i had two children and as i would still like to loose a little weight i don't want to be as thin as i was before i had children. As some people say that "fat" people are gross or ugly i think alot of these thin women are plain scary looking i just don't understand how it is s**y to be so thin you see bones and wear same size cloths as children i think that's more disgusting than having a few extra pounds

If you are happier with a little meat on your bones than by all means do what makes you happy that's all that matters...Everyone is s**y in their own way

p.s. i think you may need some new friends from the sounds of it they are very shallow but that's just an opinion