I am mad at my mom and dad..?

Question

Okay,I am a 14 year old african american girl,and i am somewhat overweight.I see girls with small waists and big behinds that just are fat but not that big and it makes me angry and sad because I don't have one and I know males love them.I am angry at my mom and dad for not having big behinds and passing the gene down...is this stupid..?and do i even have the right to feel this way?(my behind isn't flat but still I wish i had one that looked gourgess :()

Answer 1

it's got nothing to do with your parents, you have no right to be mad at them, its not like they made you and decided which genes you were going to get, if it bothers you that much do something about it, work out and get a$$ you want instead of blaming it on people who aren't responsible

Answer 2

Forget the boys, get your grades up and when you have a good education, you don't have to worry about these local boys who won't become much.

Answer 3

no you shouldn't be mad at your mom and dad because they can't control it either. their parents obviously didn't pass the gene on to them so they can't do anything to pass it on to you. and you can easily make your butt bigger by doing exercises. you should be happy with the way you are and maybe as you grow up it will fill out more.

Answer 4

That's a very stupid reason to be angry.

Who cares if your butt isnt the way you want it, sheesh.

And it's not like your parents can control the genes they pass down to you.

Be happy with yourself. Have some confidence.

Answer 5

overreact much?

Answer 6

Just be Happy Wit Wat U Got....U Should Be Lucky Dat your Parents Didnt Pass You Down Wit A Disease Or Somethin.

Answer 7

Um...yeah. Your world isn't going to end.

Go focus on getting ready for school instead of how big your butt is.

Answer 8

uhmm, yeah that is sorta dumb. no offence. but everyone's diffrent, and its not they're fault..

Answer 9

i think you're just frustrated so its normal to be mad at your mother and father, even though its not their fault. you're 14! still growing. i know, its not fair, but i think you'll grow into your body and begin to love it. i used to hate my body, i was stick thin with no booty whatsoever. but, as i grew for a year or two, i started to develop and i now love the way my body looks. and guys that only date/like girls for their butts need lives. a guy whos really worth it will love everything about you! for now, try to find clothes that make your butt look larger and begin to love it! if you love it, everyone else will!

good luck hun! :]

Answer 10

gorgeous*

I believe you do have some small right to be a LITTLE DISAPPOINTED. but NOT angry. and definitely NOT at your parents, but rather at your ancestry.

But really, no. You don't have any right to be angry at your parents for not giving you every little thing that you want, and yes, it is extremely stupid.

Instead of sitting around being angry that you don't have the "perfect behind", try doing some cardio, or running some. That'll tone your butt, and it'll help you with you weight.

Answer 11

do you know how many women out there feel the same way you do?  Life isnt fair, and noone is perfect - get over it!

Answer 12

You're fourteen, it's normal to feel this way but don't go yelling at your parents about it. If you think your overweight then exercise. You'll get over it and don't compare yourself to your half sister. And I'm sure that not all guys like big behinds.  

Answer 13

okay at first when i read your details, i was like uhmm i guess by genes you cant do anything about it

but then i read additional details.

if you say your  sister has a gorgeous behind then shes the daughter of your parents too no?

then that means you can just work to be like her too.

get some excercise and eat healthier. it'll make a difference.

just have your sister's figure as your goal.

it's nto your parents fault.

Answer 14

Ok. You're only 14. Your body is still growing. Males do love them.

But do you really want someone to just love you for you butt and your waist? If you want a pervert one, sure.

It's normal that you are mad about your body. You are not the only one.

Yes, you have the right to be mad at your parents. But, yes, it's stupid that you are mad at them.

They can't help the way you look when you were born. Genes have random outcomes. It's not their fault you're not the way you want to look. If they had the option to mold you into a beautiful lady, I'm sure they would have done so.

If you're over weight, exercises and go on a healthy diet. It does work. You just have to put a lot of time and effort in to it in order to get results.

Being jealous of other people is not going to help the body you dream of getting. You have to work for what you want.

Best of luck. :)