I am married and have two children. My wife is emotionally cheating me for last years. what do i do ?

Question

I 42YRS OLD AND A BUSINESSMEN MY SON AND DAUGHTER ARE IN CLASS VI AND X RESPECTIVELY. MY WIFE DOES NOT LOVE ME BUT LOVE MY BROTHER.

Answer 1

To be honest with u .. u have too be with her and make her feel so special .. u cant lose from yr brother, can u? and let yr wife go. NOways. B a man and get her back. I am sure that if u try u will succeed. Its the best time for a 2nd honeymoon for u guys.

Answer 2

Is your bro married? does he live in the same house?

Is it possible for you to move out - this way your wife would have to stay out of the house for long to spend time with her alleged lover (your brother).

If this happens - talk to her and if it does not help - Dump her.

Alternately - talk to your brother's wife - se if that help - perhaps she can restrain her hubby.

You dont have to be a MCP - but u can sure take charge of your life like a man

Answer 3

Bud...you are in trouble...I say you need to kick your brother's *** publicly (in the family) and let everyone know what he's doing. Then that w***e that you call wife needs to be scolded publicly also for her wrong doings to you...It really simple...just expose them...Once a problem is out in the open....it tends to not be a problem anymore. You are part of the conspiracy if you don't shed light on it. Take Care

Answer 4

I look at it like this, do you love your wife? Let her know that  you know she is love with someone else. Live your live for you, you children will eventually find out the their parents are not happy and this will in turn make them unhappy.

Answer 5

Are you sure it is just emotionally cheating?  With your brother?  Poor guy.  Think about either trying to reconcile if you really love her nd can forgive her if not get out.

Answer 6

well it can be tht its not the way u r thinking and it can be the way u r thinking toooo.

first be sure ,,if its as u say then i wonder if its jst upto being emotional.But watever it is jst sit down and have talk with her, try to find out wat is the problem,, and for relation to work out do forgive her if found at fault, but only on condition that she will not repeat it and ,,try to understand her requirements and feeleings too

Answer 7

Well you have to be sure about what you are accusing your wife for. Are you sure? Straighten things out with your wife. In any case if she is getting along with your brother than you need to tell her that it botheres you. See what she says.

Answer 8

Get the DNA of your children and if they are your brothers, take divorce and start life a new

Answer 9

r u really sure abt it?????if yes ten confront tem n ask abt d truth.

Answer 10

It's time for you to get an attorney and start divorce proceedings.  

Answer 11

u might have not given her the time n love when she needed and now she is getting from ur brother so u need to take out time for her dude.  rejuvinate ur relationship. rather than blaming her c what u have givn her, what u shud hav had done and then say anythng bad bot that woman.

Answer 12

Kill her

Answer 13

Maybe try and spice things up a bit.  Take her out, send her love letters do spontaneous things.  Try try and try to fall back in love with each other.  Love is always there to be found you just need to work at it sometimes.  Emotionally is cheating but it is also repairable.  Make her feel like a queen and she'll forget what your brothers name is.

Answer 14

HAVE A FRANK DISCUSSION WITH YOUR CHILDREN. DON'T WASTE TIME. PROCEED AS THE LAW ALLOWS YOU : GET DIVORCED BUT MIND YOUR BUSINESS. HALF HALF; SEEK ADVICE FROM AN ACCOUNTANT AND TRANSFER EVERYTHING BEFORE GOING AHEAD; VERY IMPORTANT DON'T LOSE YOUR TEMPER AND BEHAVE AS A MAN

Answer 15

well thats a worst condition...i hope you have substantial proofs for it.. she is completing her responsibilities as a mom i think but you must talk to her maybe there are a few things she like in your brother than you... talking out without making her feel akward might help... clearing things always helps.... good luck...

but be at peace you are not in worst condition..

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Answer 16

You are 42 , now be a man atleast now ,

you cant do much now.

you have children

and they need their REAL mother.

Aprt from sharing things on net.

Seal such a thing deep within you.

Treat her good.. a real love from her is yet to come your way man.

Answer 17

Dude, Win Her Back.  We all go through these periods where the grass looks greener on the other side. Romance her, swoo her.  Remember, she picked you first, just reminder her why.  Leave her notes on the bathroom mirror in the morning. You make the bed instead of her.  Try folding the clothes when the dryer buzzes.  Rub her feet, scratch her back and oh yea...do things in the bedroom or on the patio that only a "lover" would like going downtown.  

Answer 18

if you have prove than work it out between you, wife, and brother and  his wife. if he have one.

Married counseling may help.

We all grow up, we meet some one and we fall in love with that some one but we can not control that some one will love you back in return.

love is the felling that you have, and felling is come from total mind and heart, and the power of will.