I am married and love my husband, but i love to look at females...?

Question

Can anyone help me understand why I fantasy about woman when horny, but if not in mood for s*x, I wouldn't want another woman to touch me. I love looking at their bodies and pictures, and i am really attracted to breast. Does this make me a bisexual? If I was horny and probably a little messed up I would even attempt to "try" and do a woman, but have not ever went to the point, all i have ever done is kiss a female and feel her up. I want to be the man though like role playing and take charge, (am i crazy...LOL) After all that, I would go back to my normal life and still look, but not be turned on anymore. YES! My husband knows I just told him after we was discussing freaky things, that I find them attractive but wouldnt' want a relationship with one. Can anyone help?

Answer 1

really, i think it's more of the "in" thing. so many girls are becoming bi, and i think it's only because it's considered "cool." don't worry about it, if it gets you turned on for your husband, then do what you got to do.

Answer 2

If you drop the fantasy to be a man then it will be perfect.  He will like it in the long run

Answer 3

Fantasies are a part of life I guess.....keep it that way!!!!!

Answer 4

it sounds like you are bi-curious, and if your husband is willing, you might try some experimentation with women.  a threesome is pretty much EVERY man's fantasy, so convincing him to bring in another woman for some fun shouldn't be so hard.

just remember that there is a huge difference between love and s*x.  just because you have s*x with a woman doesn't mean you love her, and it definitely does not mean that you love your husband any less.

Answer 5

Lol, i've discussed this same issue with my boyfriend. I honestly can and have been attracted to women, and i have wondered whether i was g*y or not. But i absolutely love men, and i'm totally in love with my bf. I wouldn't have it any other way. Maybe u guys could explore ur fantasy, maybe if u do that it will kinda get out of ur system. I wouldn't suggest doing it without ur husband, because u know, that's called cheating lol. I myself to keep my fantasy just that because, i'm afraid a threesome would ruin my relationship with my bf. If u guys can handle that, then i say have fun lol.

Answer 6

well maybe you are bi curious. not exactly at the point of bisexual. but if you found the right women that you would turn bisexual or g*y. i say that even though you are married get away from that for a minuet think about if you really like women and really think don't let your husband and the love you have for him get in your way. have you ever seen the movie imagine me and you. if not go rent it. its about this girl who on the day of her wedding falls in love with her women florist and she never thought she could be g*y until she saw her. but really i mean think about it for a split second and disclose your husband from your thoughts no matter how much you love him.  

Answer 7

Hi, your situation is totally normal. Funny how much it reminds me of a few women I have dated. Some women enjoy adult films simply to see the female body nude.  Don't worry about it. Who can help being attracted to the female body?

Answer 8

ok first of all from what you described your not bisexual, there is probably something about the women that you look at that you probably wish you had, so you enjoy looking at it...a lot of women do this so trust me your not bisexual

Answer 9

I think your just bi curious. Not Bisexual, bi curious,

meaning you wonder what it would be like to be with

or do a woman. I know some other people in fact some

of my friends are bi curious.

Bi-curious is a term used to refer to someone who does not identify as bisexual or homosexual but feels or show some interest in a relationship or sexual activity with someone of the same s*x. The term can also apply to a person who generally identifies as homosexual but feels or shows some interest in having a relationship with someone of the opposite s*x. The terms homo flexible and hetero flexible are also applied to bi curiosity.

There you go, have an actual definition.

Answer 10

You are bicurious - that's ok.  

I think a lot of women experience this in their lives.  I think it is great that you are open with your husband about it and I would just follow his lead about what is right for the relationship the two of you share.  

Answer 11

Lol, it happens to me too, I have a boyfriend too, but I'm really attracted to girls, although I'm not bisexual or anything. It's normal!

Answer 12

Well, to be honest-everyone gets turned on to some degree by their own s*x. I am straight, but when I get horny, I feel the same way as you! Except I dont want to be the man in the relation, lol. Its just human nature. Look at it this way, you are realizing something is up, so therefore yopu are not crazy.

Answer 13

If you love your husband, then be with your husband. if you find the female body attractive, you dont neccesarily need to act on it. just use that emotion to have a better s*x life with your husband. role play with him and satisfy him. if you do, he'll do the same for you. Now if he wants to have a three-some, that's a different story. you're on your own. would you be jealous if he was with the other woman more than with you?  

Answer 14

Wow! I am the exact same way. I hace a butt fetish I guess. I have never gone farther then kissing either. I relate to everything you have said. I dont think it makes us bi just curious is all. Me and my husband even look at women together sometimes like we're just friends checking out girls lol.  I dont think its bad if anything I think its good for our realationship. But if you want it to go farther then just talk to your husband about it. Mabye once you get it out of your system you wont wonder anymore.

Answer 15

it could mean that u are bi

but u could just be going

through a stage in your life

Answer 16

I bet your husband would like to try a threesome