I am miserable. I hate my family. I have no friends. I hate my job. I have barely any money...?

Question

I don't like McCain or Obama; My dog won't sit next to me anymore in the park; my boss calls me by the wrong name often; my fat brother makes fun of my weight when he is huge; i usually burn anything I cook; I get about 4 phone calls per month and at least 2 of them are wrong numbers; I am in huge credit card debt; one of my neighbors pointed a gun at me when I was 12 and told me to get off his lawn, i always felt better thinking that one day he would be in jail and he is not in jail but has a better job and more money than me; On my first date ever I overheard the girl say, "He's nice but he is a little fat."; I put up with customers all day that are rude and belittling to me but I have to take it; I can barely walk because I have plantar faciitis in both my feet; I don't have any hope or any dreams.

Anyone want to add more c**p on the pile? Or anyone want to try to lift me up a bit? Don't worry, I don't expect much.

Answer 1

wow... i fell really bad for you..... look at things from a positive aspect... be optimistic about things... and get therapy...like seriously it will help

Answer 2

sounds like you have some repressed memories. you just need to gain some self confidence. just quit that job because you obviously are just wasting your life with it. dont worry about if people call you fat, because as corny as it sounds find someone that will like you for who you are, but that wont happen until you learn to really and truly like yourself. Im sure your stronger than you think, but you have been insulted too many times that you actually believe the c**p people say. most people are just hurtful to make thenselves feel better because they have low self esteem, and thats the truth. and about hating your family, boy i have been there, just dont stoop to their level and dont let their sh*t bug you.

good luck!

Answer 3

your main problem is your poor feet.  go to the feet store and get a nice arch support and the take some aleve faithfully til they feel better.

then start eating healthier.  you know what that means.

once you feel better, you will be better.  your dog will be happy to be with you.

you will start smiling and giggling which will attract people to you and the phone will start ringing.  take a class in something you're interested in.  just one....with guys maybe.  maybe be a meter maid in your future.  that means exercise and guys and no boss hovering over you.  you will look and feel great in time.  trust me.  just get busy, get healthy, notice how smart obama is, and go for a 'change' , in you and our country.  it's all at your fingertips.  go for change!

p.s.  brothers will be brothers, let it go.  good luck honey.  =]

Answer 4

Therapy can only help to a certain point, but you gotta ask yourself do you really need it... i read your whole paragraph, and im gonna help you on every thing you said... or try my best k? i got your back

You're miserable... you gotta know that everything gets better in time, the farther you fall, the better its gonna feel when you bounce back

You hate your family, maybe you should look deep inside yourself and ask yourself why.. maybe try and fix some of the problems with them, or sit and talk with them

You hate your job and have barely any money... well you could go and apply to some places... i'm a waiter and besides the ppl  i work with the job is ok, but it sounds like thats maybe what you do.. maybe try something like stocking on a graveyard shift at walmart or something.. pick a job that has your interests

McCain and obama? lol who really likes any of the ppl on the government

maybe play with your dog a lil more, fetch and stuff or try to bond with your dog

Ask your boss if he can try and get your name right, because you don't appreciate the mess ups... most boss's appreciate innitiative

tell your brother that you may be fat, but he is ugly and you can lose weight... i hate this world... everybody obsesses over how much they weigh... look at it this way, its a lil extra armor, and if somebody pisses you off, you can sit on them (btw i'm not being a jerk, i weigh 280 myself)

dude... i could burn water if i tried to cook, lol try eating stuff you dont have to cook

umm try talking to s'more ppl try and expand your friend circle, go on myspace make some mroe friends.

cerdit card debt... can't help ya there... i dont have a credit card... try debit cards... that way you only have so much you can spend..

umm the neighbor thing... just try and forget it... i understand how that could be hard... but you gotta try

Dude... who cares what that girl said through she aint your soulmate is she? knwo that someday you will find that girl, and no matter what she will love you for you, despite appearance, and i'm sure u dont look bad so dont worry about it

Dude i deal with the same thing... i friggin hate the customers at my job

maybe you should try finding some medicine or smething to make you feel better

Hopes and dreams... look over your interests... what stuff do you always want to be in your life... what could you do without, make changes take charge, have innitiative

If anybody puts more c**p on your pile, tell me and ill beat the c**p outta them lol... i really really really really hope i lifted you up.. by the sounds of it, you were worth the time typing this...

I hope everythign gets better for you... i really wanna know how stuff goes... and you are lookin for more friends, look me up on myspace

myspace.com/miller3537  

let me know if stuff gets better PLEASE! i wanna be there for ya

and here is a quote to leave ya with

"Be optimistic, The people you hate will all die eventually"

Answer 5

my suggestion..try pullin off a different act..and lookin around different cities or places with people you get along with..i have a similar problems with being "too scrawny" amongst a swarm of die-hard rednecks and wiggers that all have muscles numbers and guns and my family is not that bright and unarmed and disrespected too dude idk find somethin or somewhere you can go that makes you beter..and if that f*cker points a gun at you when youre 12 hes a p*ssy ive met people like that before get him back the second he slips

Answer 6

Try therapy and professional counseling.  It will help you.  You need to be happy and confident in yourself so you can get friends.  You don't need to be emotionally abused all your life