I am new at my hig school and ima sopho. and I am having trouble making friends. Cnt help it that I'm quiet.?

Question

Everyone says be yourself, but to be me I can sometimes be very quiet, 90% of the time, but once I get to know people they all say I'm really funny, and I kinda miss all my friends from my old school, I mean it's my second week there and no one has been mean to me, in fact I have made some mutual friends, but i still want to fit in, and I have been getting involved in a play and have met people there and now i made choir this week and i am not stuck up or anything but i am very quiet which makes it harder for me to make frienda in a new school oh and if you have any tips for surviving/loving public school that would be appreciated. BTW I'm not ugly or anything I've actually been told i'm really pretty.

Answer 1

just keep doing what you are doing, go to clubs and get involved with the school show the kids your not stuck up and mean but you are just shy and harmless lol it will get a lot better in time  

Answer 2

Just find like a few people that are in some of your classes and just start talking to them or just say hey whenever you pass them and then youll get more comfortable and then all of there friends will then start talking to you! yay!

hope this helps

Answer 3

to make a friend is to be a friend =]

Answer 4

when i transferred to a new school my sophomore year i didn't have any friends, but when my junior year started i played soccer, joined drama club, and i did a few other clubs. i met a lot of cool friends. in the clubs we got the chance to be social and get to know each other outside of the classroom.

Answer 5

Ok well you are not alone, I had the same problem once. What helped me was getting into sports and other activities. But if you aren't good at sports then do what you are good at. I was also VERY shy and I also got that bogus "just be yourself" but you gotta kind of not be yourself. Be yourself except for the shy part. Break out of yourself and force yourself to make friends, but never change yourself. Soon people will see who you are and want to be your friend. Good luck!

Answer 6

do what i plan on doing s***w em if they don't talk to you you don't talk to them but I'm a unlikeable person