I am no longer in love with my husband, we are legally separated?

Question

My husband and I are legally separated, he moved out in April and we decided because of our son we would try to work things out so he moved back in. Now it is almost September and I still feel the same way. He is a wonderful father and husband but we are growing apart very quickly. I honestly don't know what I should do.

Answer 1

Yes you do

Answer 2

This situation is almost identical to mine...except, our feelings have varied. My hubsand moved out in April; we have a son, and he is moving back in Sept.  The move out came about b/c we were both unhappy with each other and felt we weren't "in" love. However, through MANY talks, dates, family support, prayers, etc... We actually changed growing apart to growing closer again.  It's just a thought for you.  Try to look at your husband as a new person you just met. Get to know him again. If this doesn't work, then yes, move on.

Answer 3

Yes you do.

Answer 4

Hmmm

Answer 5

Whether you leave now or later, divorce is an inevitable. Your marriage is over.

The only question is, how long are you going to drag your family through this before you do what you know must be done.

The longer you drag this out, the more painful it will get for everyone.

Answer 6

The other 2 were right. You know what you need to do.  You just need to hear other people say it as well.  You need to do the right think.  You are no longer in love with him. You need to be fair to him as well as yourself. Neither of you will be happy and it sounds like you both deserve to be.  He can still be a good father to your son and see him often.  I would end it now, while it will still be amicable before one or both of you do something that you might regret.

Answer 7

You need to humble yourself before life does it for you.

Does "for better or for worse" ring a bell?

It should. You agreed to it.

When you agreed to "for worse", you agreed to it for yourself...

...NOT your child!

Answer 8

You have a plan......do it honey.

Answer 9

And you think this is a good place to get an answer? LOL

Answer 10

I'm just getting out of the same thing!Get a divorce it's not fair to your child that you are miserable or to you.Be strong and move on.You deserve to be happy.