I am not a cold person?

Question

I like logical things like physics and maths, but i'm a nice person, being very logical and scientific doesn'''t change the fact that i'm a nice person does it?

Answer 1

Not at all, I am the same as you and have also been called cold, but only in an argument and we all say things we do not mean then

Answer 2

No. It's just that in our society being logical and meticulous in the details of things is perceived by others as being prudish and overly obssessed with knowing the nature of a thing before forming an opinion of it.

I'm into logic, debate, philosophy, and history myself, and I will absolutely freak when someone says or does something I think is essentially stupid and ignorant, yet I have been told by numerous people that I am the kind of guy they actively seek out for friendship and advice.

shrugs. Go figure.

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel. I'm kind of like this too.

You're a logical person, which makes you very rational. Nothing wrong with that at all.

I find that being rational is very good at helping you to cope with difficult events in life. For example when someone dies, or you have a break-up, you can rationalize the situation and see both the good and the bad. This helps you to move forward in a very constructive way.

Sometimes I used to think, 'hang on, (whatever, e.g. my gran has died), shouldn't I be crying, everyone else is!', but extremes of emotions, like crying, panic attacks, violence etc, only happen when you let your emotions get out of control and reach a threshold. I imagine that, like me, you have a firm grip on your thoughts. Since thoughts direct your feeling, you have control of your feelings too. This is a very good thing btw!

There is nothing to be worried about, it simply means that you aren't a total slave to your emotions.

Sorry if this also sounds scientific lol, but I hope I've explained it well

Answer 4

Absolutely not. Why would you think such a thing? It may mean that your focus on the pure sciences have left your social skills dragging a bit behind. Is that what you're hinting at? It's all about practice. Anything you spend a great deal of time doing is what you become good at.