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My partner bought a used engagement ring from ebay for me in one of his 'bad' months when the money was limited. Although he earns a very good salary, he just took the impulsive decision to invest into a second hand ring because he wanted to give it to me at a concert night. I accidently found the ring in his study room and he had to explain to me the whole story. Am I right in getting upset about it? He earns a lot of money and has invested into bigger things recently. Purchased an expensive diamond bracelet for me a few weeks back & is buying a car now. Am I being insensitive in judging my worth with that ring? He is suggesting that I do not accept it and he will invest into a better one after a few months. I feel very low and it is causing a lot of rift in our relationship. I don't want to sound like a materialistic person but I wasn't expecting such a low quality purchase from him for a very special occassion. He has always maintained very high precision. Am I wrong in making assumption that he doesnt love me enough and hence made this purchase. Plus I am superstitious about accepting a used ring since it comes from a broken heart and relationship already. Please share your thoughts with me. I love him lots and this is driving us apart. Should I accept what he has or go with his offer of buying another one?
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