I am not important in my family.?

Question

Although i do a lot in my family, nobody care, they always think it is my duty.

Answer 1

OOPS sound like a Monday blues, of course they care, ask them to help you for a change.

Answer 2

they do care, we have all been through it, i did, they leave u a list of things 2 do things that arnt your mess, u gotta bite ya teeth and get on with it, i now its a ball ache but think what ur family do 4 u, make ya tea, shop, wash, clean. work,pay for christmas n birthdays ya gotta be more gratefull x*x

Answer 3

Im sure u are important to them just tell them you think its time someone else did the chores etc.

Smile! :)

Answer 4

Leave for a couple of weeks, they'll appreciate what you have been doing up to a point. And if they don't, move out.  

Answer 5

I think just do your duties to your parents.

Answer 6

Same here...

Answer 7

Ha Ha   seems funny.

Any way I have the solution for ur problem

But answer me to some questions

What are duties and other "scoring duties" in ur opinion

Now see i don't know ur age but of course i can say that what ever ur doing is exactly ur duties or ur responsibilities.

now think that even if they thin u r doing ur duties they are also realizing that u r a responsible person for the family.And i mean it they will never tell u about that



  

Answer 8

i feel the same way, they do care but because we are always there for them doing things and saying yes everytime they ask us to do things for them, they get a little selfish not on purpose, but now is the time of our lives for them to do things for us. we can live in hope.they do love us really.

Answer 9

well what you can do is hang back a few hairs on the help. in life somtimes a family acts like that but it show importants in that your doing the right thing but if they take it for granted then show them that somtimes they can help them selfs but thats great that you do help them.