I am pleasantly plump and there is a guy that i like and i think he likes me too?

Question

I don't see him very often- do you think if I tried to loose some weight before I saw him again- he may actually ask me out once i show up "new and improved"?

Answer 1

I would not change my self for the sack of a man. It should always be about you. And remember to pray about it, my sister.  

Answer 2

If you think he likes you now, then he likes you for how you are now. Go for it now.  No time like the present.

Answer 3

i am in the same boat.. i will not see the guy i like for awhile unless i see him out on weekends. but we are in the same sports group. i have been loosing weight and exercising everyday if not for any reason than to be able to have more confidence to talk to him. it cant hurt because in the long run its better for you and this will give you the motivation you need to loose weight. but in the end if you get him u need to remember that if he didn't like the old you that its the personality which is important not the weight.

Answer 4

go for it

it will never hurt

that could be a bonus

but personality counts more!

Answer 5

If you want to lose weight do it for you. A guy who really likes you will think your beautiful regardless of your weight. I was 195lbs when I met my b/f and he loved me all the same. And I'm short so it made me look bigger. Good Luck with everything. I hope everything goes good and well for you.

Answer 6

i think you should go for it got nuthin to lose besides wight rite? =] goodluck!