I am pregnant.How do I tell the guy that is the father.?

Question

I am pregnant by a guy that I had a 3 night stand with. I haven't talked to him since and I know where he lives. How should I tell him that I am having his child without Drama

Answer 1

personally i would call or text him to meet you somewhere for a serious conversation.then let him know hey im having a baby and its yours... if he doesn't want to be involved let him go why keep someone around who doesn't want to be there right??? not to be rude but it's kinda like the movie knocked up she just had to call and tell him it's only right... and look he turned out a pretty good dad

Answer 2

Hi.

"I'm pregnant"

Honestly, there is no way to sugar-coat it, and no purpose anyway.  He's only going to remember those words.

You should have some answers to some questions.  Do you want this child. Do you want to put it up for adoption.  Have you told anyone, etc.

Answer 3

just tell him and tell him he is gonna have to face the music as it takes 2 to make  baby. u need to sit down and talk to him. c if he wants to b involved. the ball is in your court and dont do anything you dont want to hope it goes well for u

Answer 4

Just get an abortion and be done with it. Otherwise you're bringing a child into a world where it might get abducted and raped to death or shot through the eye by a psycho classmate. If that happens, it's your fault for bringing it into this horrible world. Remember, the only way you can GUARANTEE your child's safety these days is to not have it in the first place. Good luck! : )

Answer 5

I like what Tammy M said!

Call him and say 'You remember those 3 great nights.  Well you will remember them for the rest of your life.  Your about to be dad!'

Answer 6

A 3 night stand?! People need to eat ffs =D

Answer 7

call him and let him know you are pregnant by him.

and i am sure that if he is a mutual man he will accept the fact. how can you and him are going to handle this situation.

but expect the best and worst situation.

worst case let him take a DNA test to prove his the father of your child.  but i truly wish you don't have to go through that talk show drama. getting pregnant and having a child without steady relationship is going to be really hard for you.

i hope you can make this work with your partner. i hope he is really mutual standing up person.

good luck..

Answer 8

It takes two to make a baby and it was up to both of you to make sure that use where protected. Therefore it he should act mature about it and take responsibility. If he doesn't it might take time and if he doesn't want any involvement then it's his loss.  

Answer 9

kindly...dont make him panic

Answer 10

try to call him and meet with him... tell him not to get upset but that both of you took action and know ur going to have to face ur consequences as adults.... FYI dont EVER DO THIS AGAIN!!!

Answer 11

Just some how tell him. My mom had a 3 day stand with my father and prior to that she couldnt get pregnant... So he  didnt believe her. But show him proof and if u havent slept with anyone else... then he should know. Plus 3 days alot can happen. Just talk to him and Tell him. Be honest. Good Luck

Answer 12

you should let him know u never know he could be over the moon about it,

but you should let him know that even if he dosent want anything to do with it your still going to have it and if he wants to be apart of its life that is completely up to him.

good luck to you!

Answer 13

Thats a tough one since you weren't dating, seems situations like this always end with Drama!! Best bet is to go to his house when you know he'll be home. sit him down, alone, and give him the news good or bad. if he's man enough he'll accept and want to help you, if not there's a good chance he will deny you and turn you away. thats when the situation can turn into a legal battle. But there is no easy way in telling a guy you're pregnant. This worked for me and he was man enough to step up to the plate and accept the consequences for our actions

Answer 14

a 3 night stand? ha interesting

um you just need to call him and tell him that you want to hang out and talk about some things. if he says hes to busy or sounds like he is going to blow you off, then id say it right there on the phone "look im pregnant ok. we NEED to talk" however if hes interested in meeting up and hanging out then just tell him then, tell him you took a pregnancy test it came back positive and hes the father and talk about your options.  

Answer 15

I would call him and tell him that you need to get together and talk.  Just come right out and tell him and ask if he wants to be a part of this baby's life or not.  The best way is to be straight forward and just tell him.  BUT also know that if you keep the baby you may have to have DNA testing for paternity proof, you can collect child support, and/or he can sign away his parental rights if he doesn't want anything to do with the baby!

Answer 16

just come out with the truth and tell him your pregnant with his child. He'll take it one of 2 ways one he'll say ur lying that its not his and he wants a dna test done or he'll be a man ans be there with u the whole way

Answer 17

Well I would just call him and let him know. I agree about having some answers to some questions like are you going to keep it, etc. Even if he doesnt want anything to with the child you still have the choice whether to keep it or not. He may be upset or shocked at first but you never know, in the end he may be an excellent parent and an excellent partner! Good luck and I wish you the best with your pregnancy!! :)

Answer 18

I am glad you realize you have an obligation to tell him. However, I hope you are prepared for some shock, disbelief, and even some negative scenes. Having s*x is fun-having a baby changes your life. I suggest you tell him in a quiet, semi-public place. Maybe get a soda, etc. and tell him what you expect or want from him. He will definitely need time to digest the news and how it will affect his whole life. Good Luck with this news!

Answer 19

call him and tell him! hey you remember those times.... yea well guess what!  

Answer 20

call him..

say you remember those three nights.. well you will for the rest of your life. i am pregnant

Answer 21

just tell that u r and see wat happens from there. would he be in the childs life or not? u sound like ur 16. So wat would u do if u kept it?