I am pregnant help me!

Question

i am 13 years old and i am 3 months pregnant. I found out about a month ago. I am really scared. I havn't told my parents yet. The thing is i go to Catholic School and i dont know what to do. I am not really showing but i don't know. My parents think i am just getting fat. I have been eating a lot of different types of food too. The father of the baby doesn't know. I was at a highschool party that my friends and i got into. I didn't think any of this was going to happen at the time. I was hanging out with my friends and then this guy came up to me he is 16 and asked me to dance. I did then he asked me if i wanted a drink i took it not knowing it had alcohol neigther did he if thats what you were thinking. One thing let to another and here i am. My friends took me to the doctor and that is how i found out. I am really scared! I dont know how my parents and my family are going to react. I have 3 really over protective brothers too so that doesn't help. I need some people to tell me what they have been through if you have been through this same situation please tell me. I need some help and opinions. what should i do? HELP!

Answer 1

I understand that ur scared and dont kno wat to do but tell ur parents and one thing do not get an abortion do not listen to some dumb ppl. ok? so if u want to tlk email me my name is jazmine [e-mail]

Answer 2

oh my goodness!! you are only 13?! that must be terrible! the thing you must do is to tell your mother right away bc she will know what to do. but do not ever have an abortion, that is just sin (i am catholic too). what you should do is to have the child then give it up to adoption.. you poor thing!! you must be scared to death!! talk to the person you feel most comfortable first before anyone else. good luck!! i will keep you in my prayers!!!1

Answer 3

No lectiures from me sweety, not about being bpregs, not about what you wre doing, and none about keeping/giving up your baby.  That isn't what you asked ofr.  What you need right now is to have that set-down meal and prepare yourself to talk to your parents.  Pre-natal care is so important to have a happy and healthy baby.  OK, you're young, you had an oops, and you are going to be making decisions now that most girls gont for a long time.  Don't beat yourself up over the fact that you are pregs; it isn't good fo you OR the baby, as your stress also felt by the baby, who will neding your nourishment, ande the stress chemicals in your blood also go to the baby.  Good luck, hun, and may you and your baby be happy, no matter your decision.

Answer 4

i'm sorry that you are in such a hard situation, especially as young as you are. The most important thing is to communicate. Tell your father, tell the rents, tell the people you are very close to. It will not be easy, but you can't do this without someone's support. Even if they are mad at first, they will still love you at the end of the day.

You may also consider abortion, but if this is what you want, don't wait too long or it will become to late.

Also you might consider adoption. It's not great to get preggo at 13 to begin with, but there are thousands of infertile parents looking for a child to complete their lives (like in juno)

Whatever you choose, be brave and strong, and know that even when you know you screwed up, there are thousands of other girls who share the same problem. Try joining a support group, trust me, it will make you feel so much better to know you're not the only one.

good luck, and be blessed. :)

Answer 5

i know your scared but the first thing you need to do is tell the father, so you can see where he stand and how he feels about the situation.so you can know for sure if you want the baby or consider abortion or adoption.then tell your parents they would want to know about the father and how he feels about it so that's why you should talk to him first. I know your scared but the sooner the better you tell them, if you plan to have the baby you need to see the doctor so can get you prenatal vitamins,check up etc. there the only ones that can help you.

you'll be fine

Answer 6

I'm glad you've decided  to do the right thing.  

Answer 7

wow....im surprised..on that age you got pregnant???well,nowadays its common problem on teenagers..by the way,its not a problem,,its realy realy realy BIG PROBLEM..

i think you should tell your parents now to end your worry, because too much worry can affect your baby.

Answer 8

Hello. I m 15 and have a 14 wk old daughter. Telling my step mum and dad was the hardest thing. My dad packed my bags and sent me to Sydney he didn't  want to deal with a pregnant teen. My mum lives in Sydney she was so understanding it was an accident she looked after me but after i had my baby i went to stay with a friend in QLD then my friend and i moved back to Sydney.

Its your mum and dad's job to worry but they should also come around and support you. Good luck x

Answer 9

lawl, sucks to be you

Answer 10

Well I think having over-protective brothers will help!

I mean they seem to really care about you, and you'd think they'd be there to help you the most.

So if I were you, I'd tell the brother you feel most comfortable with, and just tell him alone.

The next step would be to tell the rest of your family, or wait and just tell the baby's father.

You just need to tell as soon as possible.

You could have your friends there when you tell, and even the baby's father.

The sooner you tell, the sooner you're parents will get used to the idea (or be settled with it) and you have more time to make up your mind on what you want to do. Your parents then could take you to the doctors instead of your friends.

Best of luck!

Answer 11

I think the best first step here is to tell your parents. They will find out eventually. The sooner the better. They need to know because they'll be the ones doing most of the work, be that helping you raise the child or helping adopt it out. (Don't abort, you made it, don't kill it)