I am pregnant help with opinions please?

Question

b4 u read this, yes my periods r regular and i should have started prolley the 18th of this month...On July 24th I had """PROCTECTED""" s*x with my friend then shortly after we were done doing our business we decided to go for round two. In the middle of round two the condom slipped off and he noticed, so he pulled out and like right after that ejaculated on my leg (His *** did not come in contact with my v****a). So just to be safe because me being the worrier I am I took at test on July 31 approximately one week after the protected s*x I have with my friend and it showed negative. Well the story does get deeper, and this is the main part of my story. I have a boyfriend we have been together 7 years and 8 months and we have a beautiful boy who will be 4 in October. So my boyfriend and I had """UNPROTECED""" s*x anywhere from July 31 to beginning of August till August 10th, we haven’t had s*x since the 10th...but he is the only person i have been with since what i said... My b***s began hurting really badly

around the 13th or 14th of Aug. and I just thought it was because I usually start around this time well I didn’t start by the 18th of Aug. so I took a home pregnancy test, it showed positive shortly after peeing on the stick. I have been worried ever since I seen them two lines. It’s not that I don’t want to be pregnant again it’s just I want to be pregnant by my current boyfriend that I will be with for the rest of my life! So I went to the doctor to get blood taken to see how far I am by measuring the HCG levels and that test result came back Aug. 21 saying I was 2-3 weeks pregnant according to the HCG levels. I told my doctor my situation with the friend thing to try and get reassured and she said according to what I said it is my boyfriend’s especially since we didn’t use condoms. I haven’t been on birth control for about 5-6 months now either. It took my boyfriend and I 6 months to a year of unprotected s*x to get pregnant with our

son we have now but we didn’t plan him. Now this time it has taken my boyfriend and I oh, since we had our son of unprotected s*x and that’s almost 4 years now. I thought my boyfriends sperm was just slow moving and wasn’t capable of getting me pregnant anymore but the doc said he is capable evidentially. So what I am asking is if you were me, given all the info I just gave you, what would you think and if you think my boyfriend is the dad? Please help me out here I’m tired of worrying myself sick, I guess why I think that other guy is a possibility is, because of pre-*** when the condom slipped off but I mean it was very UNLIKELY that there was any and yea you get me...help me out in what you think? And what is my conception date. thanks again for your time that you took to read this. I know cheating on my boyfriend was wrong but I had fount out he did it to me and we all do stupid things and mistakes when we are mad. so don't judge me for that

no one is perfect!

Answer 1

First of all, if you're test came back on the 21st saying that you were 2-3 weeks pregnant..that means your conception date could NOT have been before July 31st.  I really don't think it's your friends.  And as far as conceiving with your boyfriend......it just happens when it happens.  And the doctor told you her professional opinion.  I say, don't worry about it.  Enjoy your pregnancy, work on your relationship, and I wish you alot of luck, health, and happiness..

And by the way, everyone makes mistakes.

Answer 2

Well if your friend is the father then you would be 5 weeks pregnant now and if it's your boyfriends you would be around 2 or 3. If you wait maybe a couple more months and then ask your doctor how many months gone you are you should roughly be able to tell who the father is.

Answer 3

maybe u shouldnt have had s*x with ur friend. u should not have cheated on ur bf. that is horrible i hope it is ur bfs baby cuz if not u cheated on ur son and ur bf.  

Answer 4

Whether this kid belongs to your BF or your friend with benefits is really immaterial.  If you really loved your BF you wouldn't be having this problem at all and there would be no question EVER who started the child.  Maybe you could spend more effort worrying about that then worrying about paternity.

Answer 5

ok so, i can't really say that I can relate to your problem but I think that you shouldnt worry urself sick, I mean think about the probability of both, there is a much higer chance that it is your boyfriends rather than your friends,. I would try not to think about it unless there is a way that you could come clean to your boyfriend now and let him kow what happen, but if there isnt any way you could do that than Id try not to think about it. I mean like you said it was a mistake. I Dk there are a lot of pros and cons to it but I'd keep away from it now just to make sure that you ahve a happy relxing a good pregnancy. Good luck on your situation and if you feel as though you need to talk to someone let me know I am willing to chat I am 19 yrs old have a 1 yr old son and am sort of in a rocky relatuionship myself with his dad right now, not that I have cheated on him, but still can talk if you want. Hope all goes well good luck with the baby!@ Im sure he or she will be beautiful. aim=ataxiachic8 talk soon and good luck again