I am pretty but I have no friends?

Question

ok not to be conceited....but *honestly* i think i am pretty. i dont think im the most gorgeous thing ever but i think im pretty. but people on here say it's not possible for pretty people to not have friends. and that makes me feel like im delusional or something. i assumed i have no friends because im really shy and i like never talk. as embarrassing as it is i did one of those "am i pretty" things and i asked people to be honest and people said i was pretty.....uhmmm is it not possible for me to actually be pretty if i have no friends?

Answer 1

hi. I'm in the same boat. like I did one of those "am I pretty" things and everyone said I was. but I have zero friends. the only person I ever hang out with is my boyfriend and it's just because I am extremely shy. I guess I just don't have any social skills

Answer 2

you can be pretty without having friends if UR shy.best is get over it!

Answer 3

Well, if you think people are gonna like you cos you are pretty, then maybe your personality is equally shallow...which means you probably only want to be friends with people who are pretty, rather than looking at their personality. That's probably why you're shy, why you haven't found many good friends. Here's a TIP: the inside counts MORE.  

Answer 4

Well usually pretty people don't have friends they have a company who is just with them cause they are pretty and they help other guys in hooking up with you "he has a thing for you" and after s*x that thing is gone.

you better open up to people. At least a girl your age doesn't matter is she ain't pretty just try to get along with some one even if they aren't the most popular people around.

i am a guy. i am good looking not the most handsome but still better then the lot. But i don't have guts to talk to a girl who thinks i am a cool and nice guy! just because i am shy and don't talk to people around me...

so a word of advice open up to a few people!

Answer 5

well, the first thing you have to do is stop focusing on wether or not people think your pretty or not. so just forget about what others say about you because its always going to hold you back. you probebly have friends but you just don't realsie it.

Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

looks don't matter if you want REAL friends. Show people ur personality and get over ur shyness.

If u want true friends DO NOT rely on ur looks.

good luck  : )

Answer 7

baby think positive that there is no one which suits you alright!

Answer 8

It's so hard when you're really pretty because girls hate you and guys want to nail you. I had that problem in school and it was worse because I turned off to people. Best advice? Be yourself and don't be scared of it.Modesty is a good policy and whenever you make friends then you make friends. I've seen alot of kids lose their personalities to make friends with other people. It ain't worth it. If you can't make friends in school, then maybe you'll make friends if you take a part time or do extra curricular activities.Good luck!!

Answer 9

How are your listening skills. When people are talking to you, do you really listen, or is your mind busy thinking of what you are going to say when it's your chance to speak? Friends like to be listened to.

Answer 10

when I look for friends I don't care what they look like on the outside...well they've got to be presentable at least and not look like a hobo or wateva...but you get wat i mean.

i look for friends based on the inside and their personality....i especially like people with a positive and bubbly personality.

theres a friend out there for you!

good luck though

Answer 11

My sister was (is) very beautiful, but never talked and only had a few friends here and there. She was mostly by herself at school, but now she's married and has all kinds of friends. She even talks to them.

Answer 12

sorry but it doesnt matter if your pretty if you want friends maybe if you wanted a boy friend or girl friend (what eva makes ya happy) if your kind and maybe funny or outgoing or helpfull youll have friends,just talk to atleast 1 person then maybe get to know their friends and so on and so on. good luck getting your self some friends:)  

Answer 13

hey u got a freind now, me, if u ever want to talk my msn is [e-mail]

Answer 14

Shy is the obstacle here. Get over it and start having friends.

Good Luck

Answer 15

u have the looks but u don't have the confidence..ur just missin one thing..and being pretty is just making people stare at u not being ur friend..most likely.. :)) and if u r pretty then u shouldn't feel embarassed by anythiong cause u know ur pretty..I don't get u.. XD