I am quite confused about my sexuality ?

Question

this is difficult for me to talk about so i would appreciate no negative comments .

i consider myself straight and the thought of having s*x with men repulses me however i am at times attracted to some men sexually as in i am sexually aroused by them.. I'm not sure what to think.honestly ..

Answer 1

that is typical of almost everyone, girls or males.

everyone has that

you almost are comparing yourself to this person, without knowing it. and you think, wow i think i could go out with them ( this is subconsious)

this is my thought about this

not sure if anyone else agrees with me.

this actually most of the time gives you confidence.

but

to be...frank

it's perfectly normal.

you still like girls

and you don't like men

but their are some men you find arousing.

again

normal.

Answer 2

You do not say if you are attracted to girls sexually. Do you get turned on when you see a woman in the same way as you do when you a man. You might be bi-sexual.

Answer 3

tht doesnt really matter, u said it urself, u consider urslef straight so then ur straight, its who u are, trust me.its plrry jst a phase

Answer 4

Andy: You are a totally normal person, teenager I am guessing.  It's so hard to be in your age group and have some feelings that are so confusing.  We all know what you are going through and as hard as it is you just have to go through it and get to the other side.  Some kids know absolutely that they are g*y when they are 12 years old. Some kids struggle with their identity until they are 20. Most will be sure either way between 14 and 18.  When you know for sure I hope it brings you relief and I hope you can embrace it happily.  Until then, I know it's frustrating.  You have many to talk to as you come to terms with your own sexuality. It doesn't make you g*y to want to talk about it, maybe you will feel better having friends who will listen.  This is a great resource you can use. To you I am just an avatar on Answers and I will listen without judging you, but maybe I can offer some insight and understanding.  

Answer 5

I bet you are young. Hormones going crazy. You might be confusing appreciation for a good looking guy for sexual attractiveness, big difference. Any honest straight guy can tell if another guy is attractive, doesn't mean they want to be with them. If you are young and hormones are ruling, those thoughts can turn into sexual thoughts, but truly doesn't mean anything.

Answer 6

The thought of having s*x with men repulses you but then you're attracted to some men?  Or are you just repulsed by unattractive men and aroused by attractive men?  In that case, you're probably g*y and just not attracted to ugly people.