I am really confused in what i want to be? can someone help me in this regard? ?

Question

I have high ambitions of doing something great and achieving something in my life? I don't want to lead an ordinary life? But at the same time I am unable to decide what i want to be and I dont have clarity in my thinking.

Answer 1

hey you sound so much like me.i too at times think exactly the same.i don't understand whats the point of living without a purpose.i don't know if i can answer your question in a satisfactory manner but one sure thing i can tell you is that it is your life and not others. you live it the way you want. no one can tell you who you are or who you will be.only you can make the choice of being who you are and who you want to be.if you like watching movies and want your life to be like a happy ending movie just make sure the you are the hero of the movie and you are the script writer and you are the director producer  and all that....and about "the clarity in thinking" part see it is very common for stuff like that to happen.i don't know what i want to do or where i want to be and neither do any of my friends.but we all are trying to survive. and we are still surviving.all you need is a guidance counselor who can side you at all time and tell you what is what.and if you cannot find one just drag in one of you good friend to do the job for you.good luck.I'm sure you will turn out fine and be a great person one day making a huge change in the world....

Answer 2

go be a beach bum for a year or two and think about it.

Answer 3

Take those test that help you find what you are best suited for because they are pretty accurate and then you will know sort of the direction your personality will drive you to a successful life

Try several different ones and also take at different times throughout your life so you can see your highest strengths

Answer 4

No one can answer this question for you but you.  Just get out there and live a good life.  Balance.

Answer 5

wat are your interests???  do you want to do it for the money or something you love...

Money you do a job in the oil industry.. since those the people makin big bucks now

Answer 6

It's clear that you don't have clarity in your writing.

Try periods instead of question marks when it's a statement not a question.

So what is your actual question?

You want a list of jobs, or hobbies, or lifestyles, or what?

Be a good parent.

Be someone who actually cares about other people.

Help those in need.

Discover a cure to a horrible disease.

Visit a lonely person.

Teach.



I'm not really sure what you want.

Answer 7

You can only make this decision for yourself. What do you love so much that you would do it for free? Try and take money out of the picture. What do you love so much, you would do it for free? How can you change it so that it is something that only YOU can do?

Find your unique passion, good luck!

Answer 8

A Supreme Court Justice

oh yeah....

Answer 9

Well really only you can make this decision for yourself, as you are the only person that knows your true desires in your heart. Ask yourself, what do you like? What are your strengths? Try writting a list with three possible areas that really interest you. Also, idenify what is you hate, and as you search for what you're looking for you know exactly what to steer away from. Look at how you want to get here, do you want to go to tafe, uni, etc? Lists really help!