I am really scared going back to school?

Question

because everyone just bullied me all the time and it was very horrible.

i think of running away from home and then killing myself somewhere so nobody could find me.

because i have no other choice........

please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

hunni dont run bacsue it will just come to haunt you go back and if it doesnt work out get your mum to move you i had the same problem and the school help me find a new school but then i stayed and i have now finshed

Answer 2

ha if you do run away dont kill your self come to utah and find me! (btw im 13) and im sorry but really where i live there are no bullies whatsoever so ive never had that problem but i think its cause our town is so freakin teeny lol

Answer 3

Hey Maxxy

you need to chill a little tiny bit, im 14 too, i got bullied sometimes and i was the cool guy sometimes, now that ive switched 7 schools i stoped caring, you know why? because they are all schools, there are teachers, student, popular guyz and bullies they are all the same,

i figure its too late to move anyway so you have to cope with it, yeah yeah  i know you're scared of this and that but really it's going to be a past time,

your nick-name didnt exactly help me tell if you're a guy or a girl but anyway you are too worried, really you should be a little bit more spontaneous flow with whatever is around you, i cant say much just that im going to an english school for the first time i was abroad but im not that worried, maybe a little bit (( there are hot girlz in my class :P ))

I'm gonna say this again, CHILLLLLL

make more friends, dont avoid bullies, actually you should face them! not by the fest though, most schools have strict policies against bullies so you really should talk to the head whenever there's a reason to, bullies usually get 3 chances, after strike 3 they get a warning and strike 4 they get transferred (probably)

Good luck  

Answer 4

grow some balls and stand up for yourself... jeez... i was bullied in elementary school then i stood up for myself and now they know who's boss

Answer 5

No no! Please! God made you to stay alive until he needs you! You still don't know whats in store! Karma will get those people. They buillied you? Well my advice: DO NOT go to teachers. They might expell them, might give them detention, but they come back, and they'll get you. First tell your parents. Then have them call the cops. The cops WILL make them stop. They could go in jail or juive. But please, your life is going to be amazing! There is so much to think and explore. Puh-LEEZE don't kill yourself. Your parents would be miserable all their life! Do you want to leave them like that? They LOVE you. God LOVES you. There are to many people you would leave behind! And so what? You might be fat, ugly, pippleface, foureyes, goggled freak, wierdo, loser, nerd, or idiot, but they don't know you.  And bieng fat or having pimples or glasses doesn't make u wierd, your unique your you. Someone thinks about you everynight before they go to sleep someone cares enough to get you to shool. And how you thank them? By leaving them behind to cry and feel sorrow. Just hold yor head up high. Don't cry, or beg them. Don't answer there questions, just hold your head up high and know that you're are stronger and more mature than they will ever be, and it will all be over, GOD, it'll be all over soon, and i'll be fine, i'll be fine......repetedly say this, believe it and confide in it everyday. Stay strong....

Life may have a few speed bumps, but the car will keep going forward.

Answer 6

you have a choice fight back, don't kill your self kill them

Answer 7

I was bullied at school. Not this badly, just made me unhappy.

I suggest you talk to somebody....a teacher, but you need to tell them exactly how bad it is...don't just say you ar bullied as they might think it is a minor incident.

You need to state that you have had suicidal thoughts and have been terrified by the thought of coming back.

This might get worse before it gets better, the people who have done it will find out you said something because they will be questioned and punished...but remember, there is light at the end of the tunnel...at least you did something about it.

At the end of the day would you prefer to look at your bullies and know they were in control or even if they said something be able to say 'at least i did something with my problems'

Good luck!

x*x

Answer 8

join some clubs

if no one else the nerds will always be your friends

x

Answer 9

thankfully you only have 4 more years of school to go...believe me no one cares after school is over so don't let things now get to you, Learn to stand up for yourself...laugh with them and they get bored and go find another target. find some new friends try an activity that you've never considered before. Most of all learn to like yourself and NEVER think suicide is the way out...it isn't..life is for living not missing !

Answer 10

Honey please consider talking to your school guidance counselor, parents, or other trusted adult about these issues. If those aren't options that appeal to you try here:

http://suicidehotlines.com/national.html

Remember suicide is a permanent solution to what is ALWAYS a temporary problem. You can't imagine what the results are for the family and friends left behind. Hang in there and get some help with these problems. You don't have to suffer if you are only willing to open up and ask for help. I hope you do. I wish you all the best. You are not alone.

Answer 11

wow, i know what you are going through. i was in the same situation last year. people bullied me to the point of where i cried myself to sleep at night. but don't kill yourself because then they win. you hold your head high and try to not let anything they say affect you. If you have to cry, go to the bathrooms and do it. Don't let them see you cry. Stick it out until you move schools, until then, you gonna have to deal with it. I'm so sorry

=((

Answer 12

i really understand how you feel i felt alone at school and i nearly ran away once but got caught school can be really tough. i just tests how strong your mental state is and are you really going to let statistics win? i struggled through it and am now trying to get my life back on track if you ever need any help just email me through my profile

dont give up.

x

Answer 13

how old are you dude?

are you going into 8th grade or freshman? because high school is like a new life dude.

Answer 14

you have always a choice ask teachers dont despair mate please dont run away from home talk to someone first you made the first move by doing this

not to condecend you but

PLEASE ASK FOR HELP YOU WILL BE GUD LIFE AINT NEVER THAT BAD TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN THERE

Answer 15

Oh wow, you have it hard there....Hey, the good side!! Stand UP for your self! Don't let them put you down! In the future, you aren't going to even have to see them, so you don't want to kill yourself or anything, because Lifeis so great! You don't want to be mad at yourself just because of other kids! Ignore them, once you are at of school you will never have to see them again!   Good Luck! And you will be fine going back to school! DON"T LET THEM BULLY YOU! ;-)

Answer 16

Your nearly out of school, what is it your last year. Just play it cool don't make em think they're getting to you. Bullies are usually the most insecure people about, its their problem not yours.

Answer 17

I've suffered with bullying throughout my entire life. When I moved from primary school to secondary school I went to a school where I knew no one (my two cousins and my brother had just left leaving me a legacy) I got badly bullied so changed schools 2 days before I was supposed to be going back to start year 8.

At my next school I got bullied too. And on the first day. This one boy called matt said something too horrible to repeat. So next lesson when the teacher had gone to the staff room I tapped him on the shoulder, he turned around and a punched him full in the face with my whole body weight behind it. He had a black eye for days, and because everybody saw me do it no one dared say anything to me again.

If you can't fight fire with fire get another element.

Teachers can help so much. So can your parents. Write down all the names of the people that are bullying you and what they are saying and doing to you and pass it to your form tutor. You could even try speaking to the head.

Whatever you do don't kill yourself. No one in the world is worth that, and after school you won't see any one of them anymore anyway.

Besides in year 9 and 10 people tend to grow up.

The boy (lee) who was the most evil and horrible one of them all in year 7, I'm friends with now... people grow up.. and if they don't you could always get them in loadddsss of trouble.

And don't forget be the bigger person, be forgiving, have fun, and try not to care too much what they say and do, if they see it doesn't affect you they'll stop.  

Answer 18

hiya, Maxxy listen i'm bullied all the time (well kinda), and i just stood 4 myself, Mate i'm 14 too. but whatever you do, DON'T KILL YOURSELF it will never work, cause what about your mother and your father. and all about the people around you that care and love you, it won't be fair on them.

but listen to me, just be cool and confident and show people you don't care mate, you just need to show others you are what you are and nobody can stop you.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXpi5DTPg...

what this video and listen to the lyrics very closely.

p.s. sorry about the videos quality, its the only one i can get on youtube. LOL!

Answer 19

stand up to the bullies- fight back, with fists if you have to- the worst that can happen is you get a black eye or bloody nose and get a couple days off and they get suspended.

talk to your mum say that you really cant stand the school that your at and see what she has to say. find some awesome comebacks for the stupid bullies comments and act like it doesn't bother you, they'll soon get bored

try telling a teacher but it can have the reverse effect so make sure they don't say you told them.

good luck. x

Answer 20

hey

i got bulled a few years ago but i pulled through make mates stick to your mates DONT kill yourself its pointles school is just a small part of your life   also stick up for your self talk to some one go to a child line but if it is so unbarable talk to your mum get her to under stand how you feel.  :)

Answer 21

Get confident and they will stop bullying you.  

Answer 22

One thing i tell people that bully me is if you can't see the good in me your blind. If you don't care t listen to what I say your deaf. If you won't give me a chance you are mindless. So basically if you don't like me your not worth my time so go jump off a bridge.

In elementary school i had no friends people openly hated me. I switched to a upper private school and found that i'd changed. People at my old schol could only see the old me when they looked at me. At my new school i was well liked. I had good friends and got invited to lot's of parties.

Don't you dare kill yourself because you never know what the next day holds until you live it!