I am really worried can someone please help!

Question

my best mayte's cousin is pregnant and is being beaten up by the father of the child. She has not been touched since she has been pregnant. My mayte is really worried for her and is threatening to beat up the father i am really scared that my mayte will get really hurt what shall i do??? xx

Answer 1

talk to them bout it and if dat dont work call the police!

Answer 2

DUH  POLICE GET HIM 4 ASSAULT

Answer 3

tell her family or get the social services involved- if shes getting beaten the baby will defo be in danger. this can be done annonomusly so she wont know that yove done it but try encourage her not to stick up for her fella.

never tell someone in this situation what to do as everyone knows that they will try prove everyone wrong by doing the oposite- please advise her that if she stays with this man she needs to get him help otherwise she is as good as putting her baby in this danger

Answer 4

although its not your problem you could talk to the police, but you will need evidence to show but ask your mate first.

Answer 5

try and get your mate sat down and calm, talk things through with her and say that violence is never the answer. yeah the man might be a violent thug but won't it just show that she's as bad as him by doing what he's already done? Talk to her about that. Then maybe arrange a time for you your mate and her pregnant friend to meet up and you could all talk it through. Tell her that your worried about her and her baby and that staying with that man will do her no good. If she does get hurt again you should ring the police right away. He is not doing her any good, you need to let her know that. Even if he doesn't touch her I think that you should get her away from him. Offer her to stay round at your for a few nights to sort her head out until she knows whats right! And for the baby's sake get social services involved!

Good Luck!

Answer 6

kick the **** out of the dad with him :)  

Answer 7

The problem with violent relationships is that it is obvious to outside observers that the abused should leave. But for some reason they do not. In this case you can only really offer to help her. If she chooses to accept your help then the police would be the first stop. However if, as seems to be usual in these instances she chooses to stay with the abuser, then you can still inform the police but without a complaint from her, they will find it very hard to do anything.

You can also speak with social services stating the case and seeing what they can do. However, it comes down to what she wants!

Answer 8

I don't know what a mayte is. But, I would report the abuser to the police. Tell the women that she is going to lose that baby if she doesn't move out. Offer to let her stay with you. Look up a shelter for her to stay at and get protection. Have her get an order of protection from him. She needs to change everything including her email, phone number, and where she lives. Women that put up with this have low self-esteem and self-confidence. Give her all the support you can.  

Answer 9

i think you should tell someone in that family that can support them. there are also  a lot of support groups that can help people in that sitiuation too.

If you are in the UK then try this website- it gives you a lot of info and advice

http://www.womensaid.org.uk/landing_page...

Answer 10

no comprendea call polica

Answer 11

This situation sound pretty serious. She must get away from the father of the child. She should report the abuse to the police. Find a support group and get help. The earlier is the better for everyone. Aggression creates aggression, pain and suffering. Beating up each other is not a solution. Your friend can ask the guy to stop the abuse and talk about the consequences of this horrible behavior, preferably over the phone or in a letter to avoid physical contact.