I am a woman of 30 and to be honest I have never liked who I am. I have always struggled with my appearance no matter what I have done and the amount of money I have spent I have always been plagued by spots and blackheads even now which ruin my face. I try to have nice hair and dress well but I always end up a sweaty mess. I come from a very poor background but have tried to better myself and graduated top of my class from university and even won top prize in my whole year for my academic work but after leaving uni I have failed time and time again to get a decent job even though I know I can do the work as well or better than others. It's like my face just doesn't fit. I feel very bitter when I see other people who I was at Uni with who are mostly very pretty, middle class and have private school educations just walk into the same jobs I struggle to even get an interview for.
In the past few years I have practically given up, I work in a call centre, I've been depressed and put on weight which only makes me hate myself more. I want to feel like I've still got a chance to be who I want to be but maybe it's too late for me. I used to have hope but it's so hard now. I just wish I could die and start all over again.
How can I change when I feel so fundmentally flawed?
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