I am scared dat i may be pregnant. i'm 15.?

Question

da guy dat i wuz recently dumped by would sometimes want to do it even if we didn't have protection, saying he would pull out. i wuz stupid enough 2 trust him, and on atleast 4 or 5 occasions he didn't when he said he would. once afterwards i asked him if he had even tried to, and he actually said no. and then got mad at me when i was upset with him. i sure as h**l can't tell my parents, i'm not scared about being kicked out, i have homies i could live with. what actually scares me is if they made me stay cuz then my life would be a living f*cking h*ll. i really don't like the idea of abortion, and u have 2 have a parent sign anyway, don't you? i'm not scared about having a kid, i luv babies. i'm just scared of my parents.

Answer 1

well first you need to find out if you are pregnant. if not, no worries.

if you are, then you have to deal with the issue of what to do with it. im not entirely sure who gets to make the decision concerning abortions with a 15 year old, but it sounds like you dont want to.

there is also adoption, which also may be a decision made by your parents.

also, of course, keeping the child to raise yourself.

if your parents make your life a h**l while youre pregnant, then you can always decide to go to one of your places to live, but just make sure that your bf knows that its his too.

Answer 2

They are going to find out sooner or later. You should be honest with them. who knows? maybe they'll support you. && if they dont. You could live on your own, start workiing.

Best of luck!!!

Answer 3

First of all do you have any symptoms of having a baby? Get checked! The doctor should keep your secret even if you don't have a baby. Hopefully you don't have symptoms of having a baby! I'll pray for ya :)

Answer 4

The reason they seem to make your life miserable is because they love you and they would give anything for you to have the best. You are worried they will be angry because you might be pregnant. First, find out if you actually are pregnant. Check with Planned Parenthood (http://www.teenwire.com) if you have one near you and can get transportation. If you're not pregnant, lucky you! (But you may not be so lucky: have yourself checked for STDs as well)Do not have s*x anymore, even if you do use protection. Break up with that boyfriend. Although you may think you love each other, if he isn't willing to respect you enough by using protection and breaking promises to you, you're definitely too good for him.

And then (scary sound effects) if you find out you are pregnant, you will be faced with telling your parents. Start from the beginning. Don't let emotion take you while you tell them exactly what happened. Just state the facts, don't try to blame anyone specifically. Remember, though, it's halfway your fault.

When you get through, give them a moment to process this. They may yell. This is because they care about you. When you hear about a pregnant teenager on television, do they yell at the television, crying hysterically? No. So they do this things with you because they know you and they care about you a lot more than you think.

You don't seem to think they will kick you out, because you know they will keep taking care of you. In your heart you know that your parents love you. Tell them that you love them, and that you are sorry, and it won't happen  again. Just hearing these sincere words can soften a parent's heart.

Don't be scared of your parents. They are human beings, just like you, and they aren't perfect. They may be upset, but they will come through. I promise.

Here are some websites that will be of help to you:

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen

http://www.coolnurse.com

http://www.birdsandbees.org

http://www.realsexedfacts.com

http://www.girlshealth.gov

Answer 5

Well, if all else fails, at least you got homies.

Answer 6

Dat, luv, sum, and da aren't words. Your not ready too be a mom. Do whats best, and put your baby up for adoption if you are pregnant.

Answer 7

Before u start getting your panties all in a bunch u should get a pregnancy test. Afterwards if you are pregnant you should talk to a doctor or a counsellor or something. Do you live in a state where abortions are illegal? If you do then you wil have to tell your parents that you are pregnant. If not then you should probably get an abortion and start on  a contraceptive so that doesn't happen to you again.

Answer 8

I remember when I was 15 I thought having a baby was such a good idea - so cute and they love you right? It's not that easy. It's not an easy idea to think of ending a pregnancy but what kind of mother can you be? Your scared of your parents? So what do you know about how to do a better job so your kid won't be scared of you? You really want to raise the child of an a**h**e in poverty? 'Cause he's sure not going to buy pampers and get up with the baby in the middle of the night? The laws are different everywhere about what is needed to get an abortion. You need to talk to someone. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. This is not the kind of thing that goes away - ever. But think about what kind of life you can make for a baby in the long term. They're not cute and cuddly all the time. Sometimes they stink and lots of times they scream. Reality check, kiddo. Find a good man and make a real family. Find someone who can tell you what the laws are where you live.

Answer 9

Holy c**p. Well, you have to look up the abortion laws in your  state. Go to Google and search. You're 15, I am too. This happened to me before, but luckily, I didn't get pregnant. I was really worried too, I know how you feel. Trust me, you DO NOT want a baby in your life right now. I know abortion sounds wrong, but...either tell your parents about the child. And get them to sign the abortion thing, *if your state requires parental consent for abortion*

If not, then just do it.

A baby REALLY is going to f*ck up your life.

Answer 10

well....dont make yourself misrable with that situation. when the time is right, you will get up the courage to tell them. If they start giving you a hard time, you may want to consider moving out on your own for a while until everyone calms down about the situation.

Answer 11

no offense but, you was really stupid to have unprotected s*x with that guy you was with, thinking that he going to pull out before he climax. yea right, he just saying that just so you feel ok with having unprotected s*x. also, the pull out method does not work! you can still get pregnant because, even when the men doesn't ejaculate you can get pregnant from the percum (it contain sperm). also not only you could have gotten pregnant, you could have caught a STD.  

personally, I think you should not have s*x any more until you understand the responsibilities that go allow with having s*x, like protecting yourslef.

good luck