I am scared that I could be pregnant and I get married in 6 days.?

Question

Planning a wedding is stressful and last week me and my fiance had s*x. 10 tens before my wedding. I just started birth control but due to stress, forgetfulness whatever, I missed taking my pill for 4 days.. But I asked a couple friends and they said once your on the pill and if you miss, it's hard to get pregnant. The sad thing was, we planned on not having s*x till our wedding...(we were both each others first and tried in a couple times before). I am not scared about being pregnant it will be just an unexpected blessing. However my parents are devote Christians and if find out that I had s*x before my wedding day, they will be sooo angry. I am not going to tell them but wouldn't they be able to find out some how? IF and only IF which is a big IF...If I am pregnant and tell them I am due on a certain date, wouldn't they find out?

Answer 1

You don't have to tell them what happened, it's not their business to know exactly when your periods are or when you had s*x.  If the baby is due in 9 months, they might just assume that you conceived on your wedding night.

Your period might just be messed up due to the stress.  Try to relax and have a happy wedding.  Congrats!

Answer 2

Just tell them that your baby is measuring big for it's age, or that you're 2 weeks further along than you are.

In my opinion God already considers you married, and I wouldn't consider it "premarital s*x" because if you read the Bible every instance it shows was someone had s*x then they were considered married and had a celebration. Never the other way around. Just a little tid-bit.

Answer 3

You're an adult and you're getting married, who cares what they think.  Plus, there is no way they will sit there and figure out you are off two weeks.  Tell them it happened on your wedding night.  No one will question it.....believe me.  Good luck.

Answer 4

The information your friends gave you is wrong.  If you missed 4 days worth of pills there is a high risk of pregnancy.  In fact, if I'm not mistaken, if you miss more than 2-3 days of pills you're supposed to wait until your next menstrual period and start a new pack.

If you are pregnant, you can always say it was a honeymoon baby.  They're not going to figure it out by a difference of 10 days.  Trust me on that one.

Congratulations on your marriage!  Wishing you all the best!

Answer 5

Instead of being lonely divorced Jessica Simpson, be her happier knocked up sister Ashlee Simpson. Life is 2 short.

Answer 6

It's really not that accurate of a science. Two weeks + or - your due date is normal. Don't worry, everyone will assume you got pregnant on your wedding night.

Answer 7

Your baby most likely won't be born on its actual due date, so just call it a honeymoon baby!!!  They don't need to know!

Answer 8

It's okay...due dates are always just estimates anyway.  The baby can come two weeks earlier or two weeks later than the estimated due date.  You could tell them that you conceived on your honeymoon.  What do they know?  Don't stress yourself about it :)

Answer 9

Due dates are not that accurate. Just refer to it as a honeymoon baby.  Everyone will be so excited that they won't question.  And if they do start questioning...look at them like they are crazy and ask why they want to know about when you had s*x.

Answer 10

wow I respect your parents beliefs, but I don't think you should be worrying about what your parents think anymore. Obviously you're a grown women, you can make decisions on your own. And it's hard to say if they'll know. If you were pregnant, that would totally depend on how far along you were...

good luck

Answer 11

assuming that you are an adult...its really none of their business. we don't live in the 50's and 60's anymore so society is not gonna slam you for this. especially since you lost your virginity to your fiance. you could be pregnant. you could not be pregnant. who cares? i sure don't think its bad and they shouldn't either. having parents like this is really unheard of this day. if you are pregnant and they make a big deal about it, go to your local pastor and pick out a bible verse that explains just how sinful and wrong it is for "devout Christians" to judge others. better yet ask them if they stayed "pure" until the wedding night. :)