I am sick and tired of my brother?

Question

He is an idiot.He lies,he cheats,he uses anyone who will say hello to him,he does drugs occasionally.He drives my younger brother and my parents nuts.All of us are sick and tired of him.I wish he would disappear from this earth.He is a poor excuse of a human being.I keep hearing about the stuff that he does and i can't take it anymore.How do you deal with pain in rear end person.We tried everything.It's just my father doesn't want to shut him out if the family.I just can't take it anymore.He brings his problems into our lives and makes it our problem.Did you ever have to deal with someone like this?How?

Answer 1

My brother was one of these. I had to get a replacement doorknob with a keyed lock on my bedroom door, and I wore the key around my neck, just to keep the rat out of my stuff. Do this and get into the habit of locking your stuff up the minute you get home.

The unfortunate thing is that your parents are the only people who can draw the lines. Sometimes showing some tough-love is the ideal thing... kicking him out and changing the locks to show him they mean business might be exactly what he needs.

If your brother is 18, then your parents can certainly do exactly that... no problem. A few years of knocking around at minimum wage jobs might make him come back willing to toe the line.

Answer 2

well we have similar brother... and my dad too is not ready to shut doors and i am right now rebelling  my dad whenver he supports him...

Answer 3

I would ask the local mafia to pay him a little visit.

But then, Im Sicilian. Its the way we handle most people like that...

Answer 4

No but I really feel sorry for your family that you have to.  Have your parents tried getting him help?  Sounds like a good physiologist could help him.  Good luck!

Answer 5

**** HIM UP THE ***!