I am so emotionally confused!?

Question

My boyfriend left me after ten months to go back to his ex-wife and children. He is now discovering that he is not happy there and is now texting and tells me how much he loves me but he is still living there and when asked he says that he is fighting for us but he has to do things his way.

Answer 1

Drop him like a lead balloon. If he was going to fight for you, he wouldn't be there. Doing things his way means getting into your pants while still keeping a relationship with his family. Find a man who will love you and be truthful.

Answer 2

He wants to have his cake and eat it too!

Answer 3

Cut him loose.  He knows nothing about commitment.  First, he left his wife and children.  Then, he left you.  Now, he is showing still another lack of commitment to his wife and children by stringing you along via texting.  This man cannot be trusted.

Answer 4

WAKE UP GIRL!!!!!! You are letting him go back and forth with this, I want you,no I want her, now I want you again.... blah blah blah, don'y you wnat aman who knows what he wants, it's such a turn off. And at this point you are only asking for it. And if you cheated with him when he was married well then you deserve this misery, what goes around ALWAYS comes around.

Answer 5

"His way" seems to be not fighting for you or your relationship. It's obvious you care about him, but you have to care about yourself more and let him go. Find a man that is worth your time.  

Answer 6

He doesn't know what he wants, and that can be the most dangerous kind of guy to lose your heart to. He had his chance....but he blew it. Let him go, move on with your life, and be happy!

Answer 7

So what are u confused about?

He left you so Don't take his Sorry A$$ back!!

Answer 8

And, if you take him back it won't be long before he realizes that he's not happy with you and will AGAIN go back to his ex-wife and children.

He is stringing you and his ex-wife along.  Even if he decides to finally leave the ex, then marry you, won't be long before he will start going back and forth between you and yet another woman.

You aren't confused -- he is!

Answer 9

This guy's a knucklehead.  He's a father now, and waffling back and forth from their mother to you isn't fair to anyone, especially those kids.  I'd do the Vegas clap and walk away.

Answer 10

Back off and let him have it his way, but at the same time you move on with your life. When he decides to come back, if there is room, you can let him in, but if there is no room, it is his lost and his own fault. Remember, he wanted to do things his way.

Answer 11

Tell him he **** in his bed, to lay in it now.  That he hurt you by going back to the ex the way he did, and now that the grass isn't greener on the other side... DEAL WITH IT!  And then focus on making yourself happy.  

Don't reply to his texts or take his calls... or I wouldn't if I we're you.  

Good luck, Sweetie!