I am so nervous!?

Question

I have volleyball in about 5 minutes

i am the worst player

nobody likes me

or atleast i don't think so

i get so nervous everytime i go.

what should i do to help me not get so nervous.

Answer 1

practice your butt off until you KNOW you're the best

the better you think you are, the better your nerves will be.

simple psycology.

good luck

as for nobody liking you

you might be right, you might be 100% wrong....who knows

but you're a girl.....so you're probably just insane (haha....not meant personally.....you'll just be way too emotional to look at things rationally)

you'll think people dislike you for a while

then you'll realize they like you

then you'll  make an enemy, you two will will give dirty looks and whatnot....

....I'm just glad I'm not a girl....it's so much easier to deal with guys who don't like eachother....

but again, good luck

Answer 2

I had this same problem.How I solved it was I just learned to ignore them and just have fun.just tune them out of your mind and have fun, I mean more than likely that's why you joined in the first place.I know that's why I did.

Just have fun.

Answer 3

i was one of those girls that you hated.i hated the worst girls on the team because they just goofed off and never practised . when it came to a game the person still got to play. that would be their side so fix it

Answer 4

Relax and do your best.

Answer 5

i had that same problem on my team. i was the freshman and everyone hated me ;D

just have to put those hater blockers on.

we had this one girl that was totally new to volleyball, and she was joining our J.O. varsity team. she was about - 11? we got so agrivated with her. she sucked lol. every ball she bumped went out, she couldent hit worth c**p, and she never got her serve over. but by the end of the season, we were suprised she stayed, and she ended up getting her serve! i respect her ALOT because of it. the whole team does. shes a part of the team now :D

so just ignore them and learn at your own pace. if they hate you, who cares? you should be on the team because you enjoy playing volleyball- and if they are party pooopers ignore them.

Answer 6

relax also just don't think about what they say about you and also you can use what they say to you as a way to push yourself to do better

Answer 7

RELAX! and be confident.

dont go back to serve,or get ready to pass,or set,or hit with the feeling "oh god what if i messs up!" go into it with the aditut, "i can do it and it is doing to make those brats jelouse!!!"

haha

and those girls who are saying c**p about u-igore it.

that happens all the time.

drama is so pathetic

there just jelous anyway

Answer 8

Relax.  

Go to practice and just do your best.  Do not worry about anyone but yourself.  Encourage everyone at practice, even the girl you hate.  If the other people really do not like you, this is a good way to get them to change their minds.  If they really do hate you, this will not change their minds and it will IRRITATE them.

Answer 9

relax...and just be better then those girls you hate....just rub it in their face that they suck

Answer 10

well.... it sux. maybe it was b/c of a bad play u did? idk....i play volleyball....and at one point there has been a time where everyone has hated everyone.....that's why we lost....just keep ur head up high and show those girls that you are good. you could also talk to them.......ask them why they hate u? welll.......anyway....good luck!

Answer 11

s***w them. ask ur coach if u need help. nd when the grl isnt looking, spike a ball in her face... lol. i did that once. the look on her face was awsum. and the coach yelled at HER cuz she wasnt payin attention.

Answer 12

u no wat forget wat the other girls say all u need to do is practice i wasnt very good at 1st but when i practice i certain things i got better show them that ur not afraid to try to improve show them even though u might not play well u still hit the ball n do ur best cuz if u let them no how u feel they might continue bein mean n dont be nerous at all the only time u should be nerious is when you have a championship game or something like that

Answer 13

Well...as you can tell this is a universal problem. Now one likes someone that can't contribute to the team. That is how teammates that always mess up are seen. The solution is not to quit, but to get better. Everyone started at some time. What will make things go better is your ATTITUDE in the mean time. Always seek out help form your coaches, but also from you teammates. Tell them how good they are and if they could help by working with you, how much you would appreciate it. But them the ball is in your court...you must show them how hard you are willing to work to improve. This earns respect and you will get better and enjoy the whole team dynamic much more. Go get 'em!

Answer 14

just relax..you will eventually get better and you can even be better than all of the other girls =)