I am so pissed!!! and jealous lol....>=[?

Question

Ok so my dad spends tons of time with his gf and her two kids. [girl 13 and boy 15.] Welllll her daughter was telling me on myspace about how he gave her $200 for back to school shopping... He won't even buy his 3 real kids a f***ing outfit! The last time I ever got clothes from him was christmas and it was 2 shirts. Plus her daughter has all these pics of her and her fam. including my dad on myspace too..I am getting really angry and jealous...He has even requested in court that he see's us less...[mom told us]...But I kinda feel guilty for being angry and jealous of their family because I know it's his fault but I am so pissed that he is doing this to us....Ughhh do I have a right to be jealous and angry...And what should I do....

Oh and we went to the mall with him a few weeks ago when we saw him and he wouldn't buy us anything except my brother a pair of $10 sunglasses because he got his braces off and now he's taking his replacement daughter shopping at hollister and abercrombie I mean WTF!!!

When I went into hollister I found a shirt I had liked so I asked my dad if he could get it for me [It was like $20-$25] and he said he didn't want to buy me anything from hollister because it probably wouldn't fit and I should size down a little!

Answer 1

so i take it you are not close to you dad may be if you would call him and just want to spend some time with him and talk to him explain to him how you fill tell him you fill as if he has Replace you and that you dont like that .may be he fills like you dont want to be a part of his life could you be giving him that vibe??

Answer 2

How do you know the daughter isn't lying.  Ask your dad about it.

Answer 3

Im sorry and feel really bad for you. Too tell you the truth i do beleive it should be family before friends, and the gf would be considered in the friend section. That just isnt right, and plus the other girl should not be flaunting it around. Thats just horrible.

Answer 4

you wont' get anywhere with how you feel if you don't talk to him about it. then go from there.

Answer 5

Well, you need to let it all out!!! You tell him the way it is for you just as in your question.

Your Dad just wants to look really good and by buying everything for the new family hides his real truth....he is a jerk. And, the other family will find that out in the near future.

Answer 6

I wish I had something to say that would help. The truth is that Parents sometimes act immature and don't realize who they are hurting....which is usually the people closest to them. You need to tell your father how you feel....but wait until you are not as angry. Your argument should be well thought out, before you approach him. He may not be aware that he has been neglecting you this much.

Answer 7

Take him to court for child abandoning. If its necessary. But if you're worried about money...then thats a problem.