I am so sad about this.........?

Question

I was close friends until we got physical.We didn't have s*x but we just fooled around.It was a mistake and i felt guilty about it.

However he has been distancing himself from me ever since.He never called me and its been 2 weeks.

I respect his decisions for not talking to me but i have been so sad about it.I miss him terribly because i really enjoyed his company.I also missed his friendship and i have been crying. I think its for the best if we stay away from each other.

So how long do you think it will take me to stop missing him and get back on track

Answer 1

I think you'll get over it in about 3 weeks.  You should focus on other things to take your mind off of him.  Just tell yourself how of an A** H*** he is by not calling you and you'll be over him sooner than you think.  He's not worth your tears girl! You deserve better!!!  Think that you're all that and nobody can put you down!  Good luck girly!

Answer 2

I'm sorry to say this, but you might be in love with him! If you feel this bad, and don't like not being around him . . . it might be LOVE! :)

Answer 3

when you are ready, you will know and be able to move on.

Answer 4

Maybe he just feels guilty because he wanted to have s*x. Or maybe he's just creep-ed out that you suddenly went from friends to fooling around and is confused about it.

Answer 5

Just write him a letter tell him how you feel he might think youre angry with him

Answer 6

You don't necessarily have to stop missing him. If he was a good friend i doubt you ever will. Try talking to him & let him know how you feel. Tell him your friendship means alot to him & that you made a mistake by taking it further. The same thing happened to me & until we talked about it it was pretty ackward.

Answer 7

I feel so sorry for you! I think you should ring him and see why he hasn't bothered to contact you and if its a rubbish reason then leave him. It normally takes me about 2-3 months to get over someone unless he was really amazing then about 5 months or so.. I know I sound quite sad but I get really attached.

I know you probs. don't think its true but the next boy you meet will be so much better. When my ex boyfriend dumped me my dad was like, don't worry the next boy will be so much better, and he was right :)

Good Luck Hunnie!

x*x

Answer 8

You could trying calling him, and telling him how you feel. But I'm just old school like that. He may get pushed further away. If it's worth salvaging the relationship, call him. Or you could live with the "what if" and hoping and fantasizing thing. But yea, it goes away over time.

Answer 9

it's going to be a while still..try not to dwell on it so much. he will start talking to you again when he's ready to