We both work opposite shift because we wanted to avoid child care centers, I work nights and he is supposed to be caring for our 2 yr old and 4 yr old. I make dinner before I leave for work so all he has to do is feed them, I ask him to give them a nightly bath because I believe children sleep better after a warm bath and put them to bed by 8:30, children need boundaries and consistency.I do all the laundry and clean our home as well as home school both babies. I take then to play groups, the library and any other activities. I am a good mother and had already had 3 children when I met him. He convinced me that he was a wonderful man and wanted so bad to be a father, I had told him I was done having children. I gave in married him and had two more children. The problem is that when I leave for work almost weekly I get a call about how the babies have gotten outside and the neighbors have found them wondering the neighborhood with no adult supervision, they have even threatened to call SRS if It continues.One night my daughter was 1 yrs old and he feel asleep while he should have been watching her and she was tired so went up and tucked herself into bed.. When he awoke he could not find her so he called the police and it was in the middle of winter he was searching through the pond in our back yard. The other day a neighbor came up and was banging on the door while I was at work and told him, "Your children are in the middle of the street and your baby girl's diaper is hanging to her knees. Two days late a friend came to drop off my older daughter at 9:30 pm and said the 4 yr old was across the street on his bike for 10 minutes before my husband even came out looking for him!!!! Help!!
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