I am so tired of arguing what shall I do?

Question

Me and my husband of 5 years has been arguing for weeks about any and everything, hes really stressing me out because I cut my hours at work from 8 to 61/2 hrs a day ,I am a mom of 3 and a wife I take care all of the household duties while he gets to go to work come home and sit down, mind i was not getting off until 9:00 at night and worn out ,so I cut my hours and we have been arguing ever since I feel he is pressuring me and i really dislike him right now its getting worse and worse. And I can not live like this I am unhappy he thinks his ONLY flaw is that I want to have s*x every night and he does not, which is not even true how can I when I worn out from the day and i am still a young gorgeous women and he makes me feel unsexy what do I do , I love my husband and don't want to split up but I will if it means I have to sacrifice my happiness what do you think?

Answer 1

You have to spell it out for him.  You can't just be mad and hold a grudge without explaining, you'll just come off as unreasonable.  Stop doing everything around the house just so you can say you have to do everything.  I know I've been there.  When our kids were young, I told my husband to step up and be a part of the family or move on and I meant it.  Work out the parenting and household issues and the s*x problems actually fall into place.

Answer 2

The best is to STOP arguing immediately. It shall make both of you to think the problems and to find the solution easy. The main problem you have written is to make love daily to which he is not ready. Have you ever try to find out why he is not ready? Usually people face that male is always ready whereas females are not.

In my personal view to have s*x daily is not ok. So you try to rectify your habit and if possible take the help of doctor. At night you can divert yourself to other activities like reading book or enjoying a good book.

Answer 3

just  tell  them