I am so ugly that I should be arrested or at least get a fist in my mouth. Have I any chance of getting a man?

Question

I am so ugly that even my dog wants to bite me and the local mums use my face to make there children behave, What can I do to become a beautiful swan?

Answer 1

Hello

As suggested by other members also as an answer to your question, beauty lies within and that's true to a great extent, your desire to become a swan would never let you enjoy what you have right now.

We always think grass is green on the other side, however we end up in a similar situation every time, as far as it goes about getting you man, you would surely find one who would spot the inner light in you, overcoming external looks, and when that happens he would be the one who would not hesitate speaking to you freely exchange gestures and emotions

don't worry all you need to do is first respect yourself and feel elated of what you are, once that is done 90% of the battle would be one, let your confidence speak for you not just your looks.

Answer 2

Don't put yourself down - i'm sure you're gorgeous really so accept how you look.

It doesn't matter what you look like because the decent people you meet won't judge you on that.

Please don't worry...have some confidence in yourself :)

x

Answer 3

maybe you should move to mongolia where you can be with the rest of your fellow mongs...

Hope This Helps!!!

Answer 4

Well your avatar looks pretty good.  Send us a pic.  I bet you aren't even half as ugly as you think you are.

Answer 5

1. Stop worrying about looks. Things like personal appearance don't AT ALL matter in the real world.

2.If you do truly care about your looks, then try doing whatever it is you want to do, so YOU look good in YOUR OWN eyes.

And 3.Almost restating what I already said, looks don't matter. I myself am not exactly the best looking person on the planet, or even in school for that matter. But I've had about 5 girlfriends already and am currently in a relationship with a girl who loves me for ME not my looks.

In conclusion, if a man only likes you for your looks then you shouldn't go after him. Find someone who likes you for your personality, not your face. Just be a good person, and you'll find a man in a snap. Good luck and have a nice time.

Answer 6

jst accept who u are and if want to send me ur pho to i have a filing that ur liyn to ur self u must be beautiful pliz dont chang hoo u are stay the way u are han keep the fire burning

Answer 7

nice hair cut and hair do, perfect eyebrows, healthy skin fix your teeth,manicure and pedicure often, and switch styles this makes you feel s**y, this details should attract some guy and are things you could control and a optimist attitude    

Answer 8

HA HA YOUR UGLY!

Answer 9

are you joking or something???

if you're well let me let you in to a little secret i know UGLYNESS IS ONLY FROM INSIDE BECAUSE FOR ME BEAUTINESS IS IN EVERYONE...

Answer 10

Accept yourself.

Answer 11

If you don't feel good about yourself, no one around you will feel good about you, either.   It's a catch-22 situation.  People want to surround themselves with other people who make them feel good.

Forget plastic surgery unless you have a true malformation of some facial feature.  Start with a mini-makeover at a hairdresser's.  Get a recommendation of a hair salon where some of your female friends or neighbors have gone for a new 'do, and -- rather than telling the stylist what you want -- ask HER what she would recommend for your facial shape & features.   These consultations are free -- go to a few salons, if you want, until you find a stylist that makes you feel comfortable.

Next, if you're overweight, attempt a diet program that gives you support. . .the ones that also offer food may be best (such as Jenny Craig), because then you don't have to think too much about eating, you just go with the program.   You need to buy food to eat, anyway, and programs such as JC keep up the pep talks to make you stick with the diet.

Don't slather on the make-up, but when you go out, do play up your best feature. . .and I'm sure you have one!  If it's your eyes, wear just a little eyeliner & mascara. . .if your lips, wear a glossy lipshine.

Most importantly, join activities at school or church or in your neighborhood that allow you to HAVE FUN!  When you're having fun and laughing, you'll be at your most attractive, and will generate more friendships of both sexes.

Answer 12

I'm not going to lie to you. Beauty isnt on the inside. If it was ugly people would have nice looking gf/bf's. But they dont. I would recomend not leaving your house again.

hope this helps!

Answer 13

sounds to me like you have nothing worth left living for!

but wait... become a L*****n and it wont seem as tho your failing all the time at getting a man.

or go out with someone who has alzymers (forgot how to spell it) cos at least they will come home from work to you everyday as they will have forgot how ugly you actually are from breakfast time!

Answer 14

Try the old Estate Agent's trick of describing your many shortcomings as a treasure trove of interesting features that give you character.  The opposite of bland.

One day you may well find a duck fetishist and you'll be away!

Answer 15

I think your overreacting you should try and accept they way your are also you can try and change your hairstyle in an more appropriate and attractive way pick it after your faces characteristics,coz there are a lot of attractive people that don't have a good haircut and it makes your face look weird ... hope you'll find a way ^_^

Good luck  

Answer 16

Don't say that!!!

No one's that bad, I think your over exaggerating, maybe you just have low confidence. I had really low confidence too, so I know what that's like.

  Well, beauty isn't as much on the inside as everyone says, i think.(sorry, being honest) so trying dulling up a little more.

Find a good hairstyle that fits you, a style for clothing that you like and looks good, apply a tad of makeup, and i'm sure you'll be fine.

But, I'm sure you're a great person. And a guy will like you for you, and you can have a happy romance!

So good luck, i know you'll find someone.

Answer 17

Grow feathers?

Answer 18

Hi there, I have good news for you, generally attraction is behavior based, not appearance based, people are attracted to behavior not looks, at least not for any length of time anyway.

Now declaring yourself the winner of the ugly award is not attractive behavior for sure.   It's all in your attitude, a s**y attitude is just s**y, you have to agree?  I find myself sometimes attracted to people I would never say are attractive.  It's all about self esteem, confidence and a s**y attitude.   You can have this no matter what you look like.

I have a website that actually deals with all this stuff, have a look, you might find it interesting, there are some good links too.

http://www.Dream-Life-Coaching.com

Best of luck

Answer 19

Its what your like on the INSIDE that counts

Answer 20

Your Probably Not Ugly,

Just Accept Yourselff,

x

Answer 21

your born the way you are!!!! and beauty is in the eye of the beholder  ( well ok ur still gonna be ugly lol), but anyways some other ugly guy might like you, and hey if ur rich then maybe even a hott guy =)

Answer 22

Save for a (lot of) plastic surgery

Answer 23

Come on, dear. People will think that you ARE ugly if you yourself think that you are ugly. Its all about the confidence and the attitude. I see tons of girls that arent your stereotypical pretty girls but get a lot of guys just because they carry themselves well!