I am so unpopular and I know why....i think.?

Question

Howver much make up i have on i still look dead. i have a really rubbish complection. i can never do my hair perfect either. I would love to be able to do it in two loose plaits. And my clothes....i wanna go for the cool/skater look but dno what to wear. I have DC'S but i dno wht else to wear with them

Answer 1

You are unpopular because you are so down on yourself and have no confidence. If you don't like yourself noone else will like you. Make up and clothes will not solve your problem.

Answer 2

i don't think the reason people don't like is because of the way you look. it probably has a lot more to do with your actions and the way you treat other people.  

Answer 3

Your complexion is possibly rubbish because of your age, so that should improve with a regular skincare regime.  If you look 'dead' here are two suggestions - try a moisturiser with a hint of self-tan every night before you go to bed.  Johnsons Holiday Skin is good.  Obviously you should do your neck and your arms at the same time.  You don't need to lather it on - a little works great.  The other thing to consider is your hair colour.  Very dark hair (even if it is your natural colour) absolutely sucks when your skin is pale and pasty.  You have to do mega Goth make-up to make pale skin and dead-pan black hair work.  I suggest you go paler - like a light caramel or even a blond would be more flattering.  Plaits work best when the hair is no longer than shoulder length, so get it cut if you need to, then your braids will look cute.  

I'm 'old enough to be your mother' so cannot comment on the skater look, other than to say "probably don't".

Hope this helps.  

Answer 4

You don't look dead, don't be silly!  If you find your skin looks a little pale or greyish don't pile on make up.  Instead try a gentle facial exfoliator in the shower.  Lush does fab ones and they smell yummy! No one's hair is perfect - if you can't control it maybe you should go to the hairdresser and ask them what would suit you and will be easy to style.  They are professionals so they should be able to help.  Other than that, just make sure you eat well or take vitamins and you should start to look healthier soon.  Can't help with the skater look - unless you mean Avril Lavigne????  She looks quite cool I guess.  Look on Ebay as they have loads of stuff for every style going!  Good luck!

Answer 5

Its hard for u now when people associate u with a certain image.. no matter what u are in life u are gonna get stuck wit a certain image.. like for eg. when i say Paris Hilton many ppl will think of her s*x tape... shes trying hard now to get rid of that image...

Like her, u have to try and do something else.. mayb take up some extra activity, like the drama society or whatever...

Dont go for a certain look too, go for whatever u think looks hot on u,, take ur clothes outta the closet and try on things u havent worn for a while, look in the mirror and ask urself, am i comfortable in this, do i look at in this? etc..

Try putting on a tinted moisturiser and some lip gloss.... and mayb some eye shadow..

Be confident, be happy... think about it, ur not the only one who is going thru this - so cheer up and nstead of being on the internet try and fix ur hair and have it ready in a way for skool 2moro!

Good luck..

Answer 6

It has nothing to do with make up or anything like that.

You are constantly telling the world how to treat you by the way you treat yourself.

Answer 7

if you think your completion is bad, buy some decent foundation, it evens out skin tone and gives a healthy glow (ONLY GOOD FOUNDATION ACHIEVES THIS!)

jeans, either baggy or drainpipes seem to work for the skater look.

www.loserkids.com

try that for some inspiration ?

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*p.s terminator is right, but sometimes make up and clothes help boost confidence. so it might be worth a go :)

Answer 8

most ppl dont find skater girls good lookin. dontgo for a look wear what u want

Answer 9

me also so unpopular^^