I am soo confused..plz help!?!?

Question

ok so there is this one guy and i think that i am falling for him...but last year he sexually harassed my friend and she got him suspended and like had to move buses..and i like know that i shouldn't be falling for him cuz of that but...what shud i do???!!! like i have a class with him and he seems nice and funny but...what shud i do??

Answer 1

After getting to know many of his traits and who he is as a person, decide whether he is someone you can live with for the rest of your life.

Now, I know many people never think about that, especially early in a relationship. But perhaps that is the problem now days.

You must see anything more than friendship with someone is the thought of marriage.

If he's done something like he did with your friend, there are possibilties he'll do it again.

Think about WHY he did it, and if he's change (and if he could stay changed and not go back). Think about what he can do to you.

And lastly... think about the fact that there might just be someone MUCH BETTER out there for you.

Also, make sure your life is on track too and that you're not doing anything you wouldn't want someone else to do to you, and such.

I'm sure he is nice and funny, but always try to think hard on a lifetime type of relationship.. Is he worth it? Could you trust HIM all the days of your life?

Good luck! Hopefully my advice helped.

Always remember to LOVE. Love is showing an act of kindness and putting others first.

Answer 2

you should stay away from him because he sounds like he has a problem.and if you do pursue him and end up regretting it then know that you wanted it that way because you knew who he was up front.Consider yourself lucky.Most people dont get a sneak peek ..but you did

Answer 3

well what do you think...do you think or know if he sexually harassed her on purpose or accident. if it was last year maybe he has changed. and you don't have to not like him because of it. it was one time and if he hasn't harassed you you are okay it isn't a bad thing to like someone who sexually harassed someone else it's really not that bad.  

Answer 4

you should take it easy. he might do what he did to your friend but he might of changed. you should tell him how you feel because he might feel the same way about you. hope it helps.

Answer 5

I think someone who sexually harassed your friend is more likely to repeat that to you. Its surprising that in your whole world you found one guy who sexually harassed your very own friend !!!

This is like someone asking to go past a fire which recently burned a friend !!!

No way. No way you should fall for him. In fact you should have some kind of dislike for that kind of person who who sexually harassed your own friend.