I am starting to hate my mother!?

Question

My mother is absolutely physco.

She flipped out on me b/c-she walked in to my friends birthday and saw kids grinding-she cursed at me up and down and said i'm never speaking to those friends again. or hanging out with them, and that was the last time i'm ever going to a birthday. she knows i wasn't grinding though. and she told my dad to transfer me out of that school.

it's not just that, but i really can't deal with her. if she knew i've hanged out with a guy before she would kill me. if she knew i even had a guy's phone # on my cell phone she would flip.

she doesn't wnat me talking to boys, she doesn't 'understand' why i can't just be friends with those girls in my church-who are jesus freaks, btw, are socially retarded, and annoying as h**l. <yes, />she goes to my manager and askes him to fire me because she doesn't want to me go out and make money-"b/c that's what's ruining me''. she wants me to stay home and study instead of wasting time at work. i know she just doesnt wnat me to make $, b/c she knows i;m saving up for a car, and she doesnt wnat me to have one b.c she doesnt want me to go out.she actually want up to my manager one day and asked him to fire me.

everyday i come home tired from work, she steals something from me. the other day she took my laptop away. anything that she knows i like, she takes away. she makes me go on this old, extremly slow, 6 yr old computer when we just bought a new laptop. like i don't do anything, she just takes it away. one day, she thought i unplugged the internet connection so she couldnt go online-even though I DIDN't so she came in my room and stole my laptop again.

every few days, she gets bored and decides to start a fight with me. last week she did this and took away my texting, so i dont speak to my friends.

one day, my school called and said i cut, it was an error they made-she took my cellphone, started calling my friends asking if i was with them.

she is the reason why i hate my life.

i'm 17 btw

Answer 1

wow. i think she just doesnt want u to grow up. hide the stuff most valuable to u. ignore her when she yells. and just know that u dont have long until she can no longer control u. tell her that is crazy and has to stop. tell her wat u told us. if it doesnt stop ignore her and go about ur way. hide ur valuables. and try to be happy

Answer 2

Hang in there.  In most states, you can be on your own at 18.  

Your mother does seem to be over-reacting severely.  It&#039;s possible that she&#039;s going through a difficult time, or maybe she&#039;s mentally ill.  Is your father in the picture at all?  If so, maybe you could talk to him.

Answer 3

at least you only got one more year with your crazy old mom.  

Answer 4

im 17 and a guy and Totally understand

trust me

my parents hate me talking about dating

like my mom and she says she will kick me out if i date

and so i went thru highschool without dating

and she says all the girls are bad and dont trust them

im an Indian guy but born here

hey dont sweat just got to find a way like say ur hanging out with friends or something right?

or going to the library or bookstore

want to talk about it email me

Answer 5

When your dad gets home, ask him to take a leisurely walk around the block with you after he has dinner.  

As you two walk, have a heart-to-heart with him about your mom&#039;s behavior. Ask for his support and help. Ask him to enroll the family in counseling so you can all hash this out in the company of a professional referee that will help establish some trust, stability and dignity to the household. Chances are there is a program where he works that pays for x-number of counseling sessions to help the worker&#039;s families through crises (my workplace has one).

Tell him also that you need to build a resume and a work history... it is healthy. You need to establish a passbook savings account... can he help you with that? Would he help you get a decent little car if you can save enough for a down payment? How about some matching funds?

Answer 6

your 17 suck i up for 1 more year then your outta there! think about all the freedom! or you can talk with her and say you dont like hows shes treating you. you could also ask your dad to talk with her. i hope every thing works out.

Answer 7

Almost 18.......just a little more time and you can go your own way.

Sometimes what&#039;s needed is just a little distance between two people for them to get along.

Hang in there.