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Question

So today I just recently found out that my ex-boyfriend was just using me to get over his previous girlfriend.(Me and her and REALLY good friends).. But anywyas.. Now he won't talk to me and he hates me (he told me so)... what do I do?

I want to just let him know that I know what he did. and I don't appreciate it.

Answer 1

you guys are over whats the point in telling him? just so u can rub it in his face? just move on. hes not all that if he did that to u. leave it be

Answer 2

walk up to him and say" I know what you did and I don't appreciate it."  Then walk away and do not talk to him or let him talk to you again.  If he comes to you walk away--every time.

Answer 3

Why bother letting him know that you know?  At the end of the day, what difference does it make if he's your Ex?  All it would do is prove to him that he still has control over your emotions and personally, I wouldn't give him that satisfaction.

If he's not talking to you now, I think thats about the best thing that could happen for you!

Be the bigger person and don't even acknowledge what he did!  There is a lesson to be learned here........next time dont hook up with one of your good girlfriend's ex boyfriends!!

Just for the record.......lots of people "use" (although not always intentionally) other people to help get over and/or forget someone they cared about and recently broke up with.  The term is "rebound" relationship and it's almost always the new girlfriend/boyfriend who ends up getting hurt.  It sounds like you might have been the "rebound" relationship but making a big fuss about it now isn't going to change anything.  Just let it go!

Edit: It doesn't matter how many girls he's done this too!  What do you think spouting off to him is going to accomplish?  Do you really think a guy who would do that in the first place is going to care how you feel about what he did?  I stick with my answer!  I wouldn't waste my words on him.  He has told you he hates you.......he'll probably just laugh at whatever you have to say and then you'll be more angry and upset than you are now!    

Seriously, your silence will have more impact than anything you could say to him.

Answer 4

I would say, a guy like that is not worth it.

If it is that important to you to tell him what you need, and he doesn't talk to you, then try writing an e-mail or a letter, explaining all.