I am still angry no one actually helped me!

Question

No one gave me a true solution of stressing my mom to go to Pakistan

no matter how much i shouted how much i cried no effect nor on mom not on dad!

My mother is going with my little bro to the Pakistan ,and i want to go to Pakistan ,but no one agree?

which trick should i play?

i want to go to Pakistan at every rate.

what should i do?

help me plz?

let me tell you also that

My mom says that it is v. hot in Pakistan, and there r lots of load shedding. and last time we went, all of us got v. sick at once. She says that she is going for a short time to meet my relations. And she can't take care of sick people!

That is not right. I am big now. I will not get sick. And I want to meet my cousins. They r my best friends. She can meet her best friends whenever she likes. But not me. It's not fair. I don't care about load shedding nonsense!!!! I don't mind it.

Answer 1

Sis, there is no logic in what your mom said about being ill....... if that was the case, why does she take your little bro who is likely to fall ill also?

So try the logic way. Ask her if she does not think your brother might fall ill too, she'll have to take care of him than also would she not?

Maybe there is another reason sis. Idk where in Pakistan your family lives, but some area's are not really safe right now. Maybe she is worried that something might happen to you.

Getting angry, shouting, crying won't help. She'll only see it as immature behaviour probably. Talk to her reasonably, tell her you really wish to go with them and what the real reason is she refuses.

Good luck!

k, that is really little! I can see why she can't leave him behind. Than i do not know sis..... just try to talk with her

Answer 2

Tell her how you really feel in a mature way, with out screaming.  If that doesn't work...well then hun a trust your mother's judgment.  

Answer 3

Have patience sister.pray to allah and he will help you out after all he is the most merciful most kind.

By the way did u try the hunger strike? =)

Answer 4

sister, try to control your anger, because if you lose your temper this wouldn't change anything but into the worst, our prophet Muhammad (saw) was so calm, he treated the world so it runs for him, while we are running behind the world!

Answer 5

If you're a big girl, then act like one. Because so far you sound very immature and stubborn.  

Answer 6

Your mom may not be being straight with you. The real issue could be

- She can't afford to pay for another ticket

- She wants to hang out with her cousins, not take care of crying kids

- She doesn't want to ruin your marriage chances by bringing you along, in case you laugh too much with your male cousins.

- She wants to talk to people about getting you a husband, without you being there

Answer 7

Sorry hun, but i have to agree with your mum.  Its way to hot there! Talking from experience and trust me you will not be able to hack it.  They take the electric 8-10 hours in one day!  Your mum is just looking out for you, and yes you will get ill!  The water change will make you ill also.  Please try and understand where your mum is coming from.  Maybe next time.

Answer 8

ha ha..nicee:D

tell her that if she leaves u back u will be very depressed and cry a lot which is not good for health :D

tell her you miss the food and ur relatives there..

tell her that dad will be going work and I will be left all alone at home..

tell her that you need her and bro .. tell her to please take u to Pakistan :D

Answer 9

Im not with shouting on your mom , you know how much she loves you and this is the reason of her preventing you to take you with herself to Pakistan,tell her that they are also your relations and you have to visit them as you love them .

I CANT DO ANYTHING WITH PARENTS

Answer 10

Call child services on your mother for abandoning you. That should convince her to take you with her.

Answer 11

ummm if crying didnt do the trick, then i dont know wht will =S

just tell them u REALLY wanna go and its unfair that ur bro gets to go and u don't!

Answer 12

book a ticket your self andd go there before them and give them a surprise lol (dnt do that)

just say i never get hot and say i know people whos gone pakistan in summer and they are ok there not hot or ill etc