I am such an idiot people take advantage of ?

Question

me my eldest daugher does and i am telling her she is not coming round here anymore she is always harrasing me for hours for money and its getting me down, and nicking my food, i am getting angry now and asking step dad who is pensioner for money all the time he, got none and she is 27

Answer 1

I have a daughter who is 29. On occasion, I still give her money, but she knows she is old enough to take care of herself, and she has a bf. There has to come a time in your life where you really do have to start doing good things for yourself. If she loves you at all, she will leave you alone so you can.  

Answer 2

You're not an idiot.You have trouble saying no and setting your limits.I bet you have the same problem in other aspect of your life.

Answer 3

simple question? Who's problem is this, yours, your step dad's or your eldest daughter????

Not rocket science the prob lies with your daughter's behavior. All the time she feels she can get away with it she will. Remember attack is the first form of defense, which she seems to have mastered well.

I'm not being harsh but you could allow this to go on for years to no-ones benefit in the long run.

I think only when your daughter realises what she has to lose will she really see sense.

Good luck :)