I am the one who always try to keep in touch with him............?

Question

I have been in a physical relationship with a guy that I met at school. I always had a thing for him.

However, it seems like I am the one who always try to call him. I call him more that he does...

I don't know what to do because I don't want to be the one who is always calling him.

Answer 1

If you had a physical relationship with this guy, and you find yourself always calling him, move on.  I'm not saying you should stop having a thing for this guy but you're only stressing yourself with this one way attraction.  Try to stop calling him and occupy yourself with someone or something else.  In time, he'll come around but it's after you stop chasing him.  Let him miss you.  

After a while when you run into him, he's going to realize he hasn't heard from you in a while, just tell him you were real busy with school work or something. Do not appear to be desperate. Try to be cool and nonchalant about it. It works.

Answer 2

And why would he want to call someone that is always calling him.  To a guy you just come off as needy and clingy when you do that.

Answer 3

Stop calling him then and see if he calls you.  I did this with a few friends back in high school and never heard from them again.  You will see where he stands cause if you are important to him he will call you.

Answer 4

Why are you asking a bunch of internet strangers?  Why don't you talk to him about it?

Answer 5

have you thought about pulling back about getting in touch with him?



from what I read about your situation that it might drive you nuts if you don't hear from him on daily routine.

listen if you have call him two days in the row that is enough and let him call you.

Answer 6

is he making any effort at all in the relationship or are you quick to call him?  Or is it he thinks you're just friends and not anything else?

ease up on the calling and see if he calls you more often.  If he doesn't then he doesn't feel for you what you feel for him.

OR

you could just 'fess up your interest in him for something more.  A bold and scary move but it will be the fast track to knowing for sure how he sees you and whether or not he is interested in anything serious with you.