I am thinking of cheating on my husband with my boss?

Question

i am married and so is he but me and my husband have not had s*x for many many months. i have tried everything to get him in the mood and all he wants is a bj. i do not want to cheat but i have needs and my boss shows me attention. what should i do

Answer 1

First, Find another job. Then talk with your husband about your feelings and the lack of intimacy.  Cheating on your husband is not the way to go about this.

Answer 2

funny girl..... if your going to do it .... and you want it discreet .... don't do it with the boss......

if you want to chat with someone ... drop me a line.... criss

Answer 3

u can stop being a w***e--hows that for starters?

Answer 4

My personal rule is never play where you work, or work where you play... things don't work out between the two of you... you could get fired if you don't give him EVERYTHING he wants...

Answer 5

And when your bosses wife finds out, he'll fire you for her. (He'll find another one, but you'll have to go.) Of course, you're assuming his "attention" means he wants to boff you. He may scurry for cover when he finds out you took it as lust. (In which case, you're washed up there, anyway.)

Cut through the drama and divorce hubby. You get to play all you want, and he unloads the s***k.  

Answer 6

if you have tried everything and it don't workout with husband then i thank that he is cheating because he has to be getting it from somewhere

Answer 7

Old saying: Don't dip your pen in the company ink.

Answer 8

Your husband knows about your boss, so he figures if your fooling around the boss he doesn't want sloppy seconds, and if your kissing your boss he knows where your mouth has been.

Answer 9

What should you do?  Do what I do (I'm single) get a vibrator and use it!

Answer 10

Communicate with your husband about this that's what you should do.

You took a vow to "forsake all others" DONT forget it.

Cheating is NOT the answer.

Answer 11

great you are going to end up without a husband or a job.......really really bad idea

Answer 12

well try it again and if he still rejects it then a quicky might just do the trick.

Answer 13

I wish people like you would just stop getting married and leave the rest of us alone with your obliviously stupid questions...if you want to destroy your life...go for it..

Answer 14

Don't sleep with your boss.

You'll regret it.  

Answer 15

that might actually help your carrear.. lol.   nah.. don't do it.. cause once the fire is gone.. it will be real awkward.. the nextt hing you know.. he'll fire you.  

Answer 16

I have a question for you. Did you even try explaining to your husband about the problem? He IS your Husband for a Reason. Your Boss is just going to be a one time thing, or worse, he won't thing anything much of you since all hes looking for is a hook up and your willing to give it to him.

Not to be rude, but any self respecting women wouldn't even risk damaging their career for some one night stand or it could be going on for awhile, either way its permanent damage, my advice, control yourself, your a grown women, Talk to your Husband.

Answer 17

Your id is funny girl so it seems you are very immature by the name you have chosen and your life is a mess.

Answer 18

You may not lose your husband but you will definitely lose your job in the months to come. Your boss shows you attention because probably without knowing you appear to be in need. Make a trade with your husband: no oral then no bj.

Answer 19

DA !!!!!  You don't get your honey where you make your money.

Need i say more ?????

Answer 20

Get a divorce. Sounds like your marriage is done with.  

Answer 21

Why dont you try talking to your husband and telling him that you arent getting the attention you. Be honest with him first and try to fix the problem you are having before you go off and do something you might regret.

Why do people never want to face their problems, why is your first thought to cheat on your husband instead of trying to rectify the situation?