I am torn between two different men that I am in love with in seperate cities. What is your opinion on this?

Question

My boyfriend and I of two years has been there with me through thick and thin. I am 23 he is 30 He got me out of being a stripper, I went to college to study chinese (degree still in need of major progress) moved me to NYC in the middle of manhattan. I came to visit my sister in Houston. I met someone that is 43 (i am 23). He has never been married and I see and know that there is a certain chemistry there. I think I love him and have no chemistry like this in NY. I am considering moving but I would then have to resortto stripping again and paying for my own schooling and getting back into maybe not so good of a place. If you have any questions and would like to talk about this more intently please email me [e-mail]... should i leave him? should i take a chance and take charge of my own life? i hate to break hearts but i am confused. should i tell my boyfriend in ny? i am so heart broken and confused.

Answer 1

Having chemistry is one thing but it takes time to know if you really love someone.  I would think of yourself and I wouldn't take steps backwards and go back into a life of stripping, etc. when you've already overcome that.

Answer 2

would the 43 yr old actually like u for u if u were a stripper?

seems to me that the first guy really loves u to do so much for u

don't make him regret it

Answer 3

Forget about both of them.Out of sight out of mind .takecare of your self and do what you got to do.The men will never let you live being a stripper down.Its a fight waiting to happen.GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

You better make up your mind before you lose them both.  Only you can know but in fairness to them both you should make a choice and stick with it.