I am torn on what to do.?

Question

I am married, although my husband and I have been split for about a year and half. We have a 3 yr old son together who is autistic. I'm about to move out of my parents house, but i'm wondering if I should get my own apartment, OR if I should move back in with my ex who wants me back. The great thing about moving in wtih the ex is that I'll see my son more b/c right now we share 50/50 custody. but on the flip side we havent been togehter for a long time and the feeling is gone. I dont know whether to move in to be with my son, or live on my own and not see my son as much? I'm totally torn...

Answer 1

You gotta ask yourself whether moving back in is gonna be best for your son. Do you argue with your husband a lot or are there any bad feelings between you that your child might pick up on?? I would say its better to have 2 parents happy but apart then 2 parents miserable living together. Everyone understands that yo want to your son as much as possible but maybe its better forhim that you live away from your husband and find a new life.

Answer 2

50/50 not as bad as living with someone whom you dont want to be with,why not date your ex,find out if theres anything there ,if not stay on your own

Answer 3

Would you do this for your son or for yourself?

The right answer will lead you to be 100% there for yourself, your son, your career, etc now that you have made the decision to move on with your life.

I wouldn't move back in with my ex. He would know that he could call your bluff now.