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I am trying to figure out if my best friend is g*y or bi?

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Ok here is the thing, I have known my friend for 4 years now, We met in school, a few months into our friendship I told him I was g*y, he was ok and told me he thought he was g*y at one point.. we slept in the same bed for a month and a half, he slept in just his underwear, sometimes he'd come into the room and take his pants off slowly, as if to tease me, He tried to get me to watch p**n with him, I was nervous cause I knew I liked him so I declined, and he started saying "your not g*y, cause if you were we would have done stuff by now" and he even made suggestions to buy g*y p**n to see if I was really g*y, then I had to tell him I like him, then he freaked and we stopped talking for several months, then he came back around, we have since slept in the same bed we are still very close, he makes remarks that seem to be hinting that he is g*y, he moves from girl to girl to girl, he even went as far as to tell me which way his "stuff" Curves, what he does when he orgasms..etc... he has recently rushed innto a marriage, after only knowing the girl 3 months... which she has already cheated on him, so that is coming to an end.... but what I want to know is.... Is my best friend g*y??? Does he have hidden feelings for me???? P.S. he is suposidly straight, and he is a "homophobe" yet his best friend (Me) is g*y

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  1. leave the straight man alone... lmao

    dont confuse him...just leave him to figure that out for himself...dont ask him...just leave him alone...

    i think hes straight...he hops from one chick to another...lol typical guy...


  2. Possibly your friend is not ready to accept himself as he is - whether he is or is not

    Give  him time to work it out for himself and if he decides that is what is right for him he will come out when he is ready.

    He may be confused at present and if you put pressure on him he may make a decision which is not right for him and both of you may regret it later on - give him some breathing space to work it out for himself and if and when he does decide that he is ready for a g*y relationship -then and only then approach him about a relationship if you still have feelings for him  

  3. I would say YES, he is g*y. I think he is just EXTREMELY insecure about his sexual orientation. I don't think a straight guy would have led you on like that, they wouldn't want to give you the wrong idea, but this guy sounds like he was interested in you, but was very afraid and insecure.  

  4. he could be g*y and bi

  5. hmm..

    i would say he is g*y.  

    (:

  6. I think he's g*y, or at least bi. It sounds like he would be interested in you too. I just think he was a little unsure but maybe now he has evolved to the point where he is willing to take the next step. It can be scary at first dealing with homosexual feelings and actually coming to grips with the fact you are this way. Maybe he has came to pass.

  7. Ask him- thats the only way you will know for sure!

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