My 24th birthday arrives in two weeks and I am searching for answers. I am in grad school in math; i am passionate about my research and all that...but i am also acutely aware of my $16K income. I know I am no longer a little kid; it is impossible to pretend that people my age are not succeeding in life. I am stuck in a glut of low income, poorest neighborhoods with zero social respect and uncertain future. I know i am making myself ridiculous by the day. I try to better myself, apart from math i have taught myself foreign languages... I try to learn something new each day. But I know that my face is stamped with $16K...it is like a damning beacon of shame ... and that figure alone defines me in society. No one denied me opportunities and choices growing up... If i were capable, it would show on my paycheck.. at least I would be able to maintain a social status above disaster levels. Instead I seem to be one with the lowest lowest lowest bracket of society. I am trying to win... I am trying to dream...but I can't...what can I do? Do i do something radical? What change do I make? How can I make people see me not as a loser...but a winner? They told me I was smart in high school...so they told me in college and so they tell me in grad school.. I dont know if they say this to everyone... maybe thats what they do... I should be able to figure this out... I should not have to shrink in shame when I have to introduce myself or talk to a cousin or face my grandparents.
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