I am very outgoing person if you meet me but I don't like to see my friends?

Question

If and when I go out, I am very outgoing and always smiling.

But If I am home and someone wants to come over or wants me to go out, I never want too and I make up all these excuses not to go.

My parents are very strict and don't really trust me but I have been acting a lot more mature in the past year, so I see no reason why not.

But since i was never allowed to go out, I am so used to making up excuses, and now I actually feel uncomfortable leaving my house.

what should i do about this,

and the only times i do go out is with my parents, to family parties and such.

or shopping with my mom.

I just don't know what to do and my mom never listens to me, and I am 17! and have never been to any high school parties or anything like that, and its not fair because I only get to live once and I don't wanna miss out on things!

and get this I'm to old for sleepovers, i beg to differ.

Answer 1

You need to get up and away from your computer and get a move on.

If you don't then it will become more and more difficult to socialize and do the things that are of interest to you.

Bad, bad habit to get into a rut over.

btw - You do sound mature for a 17yo.