I am very un happy with my husband ....?

Question

and do not feel attracted to him anymore is there hope or is divorce the only option?

Answer 1

either talk it out or walk it out

Answer 2

hey, you're not stuck, there is life after divorce, usually a better life!

Answer 3

Is it that you're not in love with him, or simply not hot for him? A long-term relationship ebbs and flows. Make an effort to recognize in him what turned you on in the first place & maybe you can find a way to turn on the heat.

Answer 4

You know this happens a lot. It's really all up to you. Do you feel like this all the time? If you do , then you should consider going your separate ways.

Answer 5

no divorce should be the last solution on the list, try to remember why you fell for him, and what it was that attracted you, bring back and wonder on some of moments you had we you guys first started dating and stuff bring back good old memories

Answer 6

It depends, did he gain 400lbs and didn't take care of himself, do you just have a wandering eye and get bored too easily? Only you can gauge what to do in this situation. I love my husband and would be attracted to him even if he did gain some weight, not 400lbs though lol but you catch my drift.  

Answer 7

If you are not attracted to him anymore than I hate to say but you might need to get a divorce before you are moved to cheat on him. That will hurt him more if you cheat and you all are married! Try talking to him first about why you aren't attracted to him anymore if you all can't fix it then do what your heart tells you. GOOD LUCK!  I'll be praying for you.

Answer 8

No divorce isnt the only option.

Get some on side thats another option.

Answer 9

have u talked to him? why arent u attracted to him anymore? you may want to try counseling if you still love him..dont just walk away from your marriage..there maybe different reasons for you feeling this way....

good luck

Answer 10

Go to counseling or therapy ...and find out why you are not attracted anymore. Fix it if you can.

Answer 11

chocolate is the only option for you now stop whining there is no way you can be attracted to someone for an entire life...do you get turned on by 80 yr olds ....no......the best you can hope for is a friendship or other kind of bond as the years go on....the only other alternative is putting chocolate on your husband ...maybe that will make him more attractive

Answer 12

When you are not attracted to him anymore that is a major problem. Their are many important things in a marriage, but s*x is important also!  

Answer 13

I am your other option

Answer 14

no that is not a good option,

try counseling or find out what made you fall in love in the first place,

just don;t give up

Answer 15

Divorce is not an option. You married for better or worse, so now you have to work through the worse. Married life has lots of ups and downs and you work on them together. It can be done.  

Answer 16

depends.. we don't know what or why you are unhappy with him.. did he not come home on time? did he gain too much weight?  does he sit on the couch in his tore up sweatpants and scratch his crotch?

divorce is the last option when both people have truly given up and don't care to put the effort in to fix the problem.. divorce is the easy way out, less effort..

Answer 17

What that is not enough information.  Have you felt this way for a long time do you feel there is hope...  Did you have a big fight with him in the last couple of days???  I mean all relationships have good times and bad times.  If you want it to work it will work!!!  You have to be willing...