I am very upset...What to say????

Question

I have a really good friend of mine where we used to hang out in high school and she used to weigh about 360 lbs. But to me she was beautiful and she had alot of friends because she has a really caring and outgoing personality. Now that we have been out of high school for about 5 years...she joined the gym so she can get smaller and be in better health which is what I am up for. But we didnt talk as much that time. Now she weighs about 160 lbs and looks great.What really gets me mad is she doesnt even want to talk to me anymore..if I email her, she reads them and doesnt reply back and i know this because under messages, it says read but yet she replies to tons of other peoples emails. I am really angry because she doesnt care about the actual person that was there for her as a friend. I want to tell her something that will get her thinking...like not exactly tell her off but let her know how I feel. PLease help me!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

i had a best friend, best man in each others weddings etc. he moved to california and we used to talk every week, we were like brothers. then one day nothing, that was 8 years ago and i have never herd from him since, who knows what goes thru peoples minds, my advice forget her, cause it will drive you crazy if you do not.

Answer 2

it just sounds like at the moment she wants a me time to asses her life you know look at it and all and experiment with her new life style plus it really depend are you the type that sends and calls a lot like as in everyday put down all the times you've called her in the last mounth not counting the times that you were only replying back to her call if there is a lot of calling or messaging maybe she just needs a break remember to much smothering a friend isn't good give her about 3 weeks of space then try again if she still acts like she does then tell her about it