I am worried and angry about my daughter?

Question

Okay,my daughter,who is now 12 going on 13.She is bi-racial (Japanese,Chinese,White,Jamaican-Black,a... Indian,).She is very very pretty like her mother I must say.But now,men.and boys are starting to come onto her and look at her.It makes me very angry to thikn about some boy taking the innocence of my baby girl.And i know this sounds funny,but my wife,is how shall i say a ''freak'' and i hope she didnt pass that gene on to our daugther.What should I do?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Boys will look and she may find it flattering, but teach her that looking and not touching is the way to go at this point in her life.  Be open and honest with her about what can happen and how things can go to far quickly.  If you raised a good girl, she will remain so.

Answer 3

try not to over react this normally happens around this time in a childs life just make sure you have taught her good values and about s*x i know thats hard but it needs to be done so many children are not talked to about this and then they go out have s*x and end up with a child when they are still children so its important to teach them that although its a part of life it should not be done until you are older and understand pregnancy and stds and how they affect someones life and to always use protection............i believe proper education is the best in all situations

Answer 4

Trust your daughter. If you don't make a relationship between the two of you so that you will.

This is what i have with my daughters.

Answer 5

Just trust her.

Guys start looking at girls more often once theyre almost teenagers, but the best thing you can do is just ignore the boys and trust your daughter. =]

-Jexxi

Answer 6

Talk to your daughter and your wife,,make it pretty clear that you dont want her around any boys yet as she is too young,,,as for your wife's "freak" genes....that's pretty hard to comment on ,,that term could have any manner of meanings.

Answer 7

Teach her Martial Arts FTW

Answer 8

So, you are fearful that the apple does not fall far from the tree?  Make sure you tell how beautiful, special, precious, and lovable she is.  She's less likely to go looking for a guy to tell her those things if she knows them already.

Answer 9

hey, yeah man i agree with dlmrgnk