I am young and met my future husband how do I mention that I want to get married soon?

Question

I am 19 and i am in love with my future husband. We both agree! how do i get him or hint to him that I want to get married soon. He is 20 and is going to school and I am just now attending a Junior College. Can someone get married and still go to school and make it work. I want to move in now with him! I do not want kids for a long time I just want to be with him for the rest of my life. I know its right. And I am ready to settle down. Please help me

Answer 1

a good way to do this is to ask when your going to get married and why he choose that.

cuz if you simply offer, he may be a little defensive.

just talk nicely and see what reasons he have to delay the wedding

of course you can go to school and be married at the same time if the school approves. its fun too.

but it'll be a problem when you have little or major disagreements. it may affect the studies.

just talk with him and see if he could speed things up.

if he has issues like finance of family ro even housing issues than better wait

Answer 2

You're both too young, both chronologically and emotionally. Finish your education (both of you! and aim high!), travel, get jobs - most of all have fun! You can still have fun and be an item, you know! Just don't get yourself pregnant.

Answer 3

ya u could do it but it would be hard I got married when i was 18 and I am 20 he 21. we have an apartment and both have jobs that make 9.00 dollars an hour. and we make it. I love being married and dont have kids yet. You should get married I Am happy that i did!

dont hint just tell him how you feel thats what i did. I told him i want to move to the next level.do you want to marry me. and we agreed.

goodluck

Answer 4

It all depends how long you two have been together. Has he mentioned anything? If its too soon don't look for it to happen unless you mention it first. Dont rush into anything though. Something like this takes time and thought, esp since you both are young. I'm assuming you two can go to school and make it work being a married couple. h**l I'm an army wife!!!! anything sounds easy =)

Answer 5

Since you both are young I would recommend that you get to know him more for a little while longer cause you don't want to rush into a lifelong relationship not knowing if the person you love is holding a monster inside of him/her. If after a while you think you are sure, then quietly mention your desire to him and watch his reaction. If it is a negative reaction then you can thank your lucky stars that you waited cause he probably just wanted to get in your pants only anyway if you have been doing it. If you have been saving yourself and he is optimistic and positive about the matter, then go ahead and step into the water where you'll eventually swim or drown but hopefully swim forever.....  

Answer 6

start chatting about it with him and tell him what you want in your future wedding, hopefully he will get the idea

Answer 7

Take Zabimaru's advice and ask a friend of his.  Because if you start talking to him about marriage and he's not ready, you might scare him off and he might break up with you.

Answer 8

You both need to get an education to have a good future. It's just the way it is now a days. Getting married while you both still in school will distract from your studies... Just wait until your done, work for a while.. Then talk about getting married..

good luck to you. :)  

Answer 9

get a friend to ask him if hes been having thoughts of marrying you or something  

Answer 10

This is your one-sided wish. Is he really as enthusiastic as you in getting married? Both of you are still students, are both of you financially ready to set up a family? Have both of you discuss with your family about it?

My friend, you are only 19 years old. Life is not a fairytale. Love is not just "live happily ever after".

As you grow mature, you will see more, hear more and experience more in life.

You will regret getting married young. Unless, your ambition is to be housewife.

Married can't be forced. If he is not ready, then just enjoy time together.

Answer 11

just have a discussion about teh rest of your life, and say i think we should get married soon. marriage doesn't have to be a full on proposal.

it may be scary, but just say it, like you were asking him out again.

xx