I put a resume on a nanny website, a family called me and wanted to to do an application. I did and we talked for a long time. They seemed nice. By the next morning they had booked me a flight to Italy on vacation with them. I hadn't even really said yes. So eventually after talking to them a lot I did agree. Before I left they had changed the flight to Mexico and didn't tell me vacation plans had changed. They paid for me to get my passport and sent me travel money. Now that I am here their house is a horrible nasty mess (dog f***s and urine on the floor, garbage not in can, garbage and clutter everywhere) and cleaning was not a part of the job (light vacuuming and some laundry were described). I am here and the family is great, but I can't live in this kind of mess. But they have invested so much in getting me here, flights, passport, new furniture, paint, and all, but is it really proper for them to invite a nanny to live and work with them in this kind of place without some kind of fair warning?
PLEASE HELP!
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